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wanting to vent, Warning very "adult"
I just found out today My exalgf has went farther down hill and something I thought she would never do. She is now doing "adult movies" with several men along with her current boyfriend. I ask myself how much farther can she get before she hits rock bottom. I know she is doing this to have money to drink on and most likely now is doing drugs also. She went from having everything to now selling her body for s........ It makes me sick !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why would a woman do this just to drink alcohol?? WHY???????????
I'm sorry she has gotten to that point, but she has an addiction and an addict will do whatever they feel is necessary to feed that addiction.
On the other hand, you knowing what she is doing is only keeping you upset. There is no benefit to it at all. It certainly isn't helping her. If it were me, I would make sure everyone knew that I don't want to know anything about her.
On the other hand, you knowing what she is doing is only keeping you upset. There is no benefit to it at all. It certainly isn't helping her. If it were me, I would make sure everyone knew that I don't want to know anything about her.
It is always so heartbreaking to hear about the destruction of addiction. I'm so sorry.
For your own peace, is there anyway you can stop receiving updates about her condition and activities? That could certainly go a long way toward bringing you some much-needed peace.
For your own peace, is there anyway you can stop receiving updates about her condition and activities? That could certainly go a long way toward bringing you some much-needed peace.
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it is very tragic indeed somehow the videos got sent to my email spam folder, I am guessing a virus on her end sent the videos to all of her contacts including her parents and I have deleted her email address from my email account
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I just found out today My exalgf has went farther down hill and something I thought she would never do. She is now doing "adult movies" with several men along with her current boyfriend. I ask myself how much farther can she get before she hits rock bottom. I know she is doing this to have money to drink on and most likely now is doing drugs also. She went from having everything to now selling her body for s........ It makes me sick !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why would a woman do this just to drink alcohol?? WHY???????????
You're assuming that she does have a bottom. Every day here, someone ponders how someone they care about can completely and utterly self destruct. The things people will give themselves permission to do breaks your heart. But at the end of the day, there's nothing we can do for such people.
Doesn't make you feel better, obviously. But sometimes it is what it is.
Take care.
Oh her poor parents. How awful!
But, maybe this will be her bottom. Maybe her family will reach out with support to help her get into rehab. I'm betting she's doing drugs too. I hear many women end up doing drugs in the adult movies. And then it's sometimes a slide into prostitution. So sad.
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But, maybe this will be her bottom. Maybe her family will reach out with support to help her get into rehab. I'm betting she's doing drugs too. I hear many women end up doing drugs in the adult movies. And then it's sometimes a slide into prostitution. So sad.
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Adult movies are basically legal prostitution. They just get paid way better than the average trick-turner on the street.
And I agree with zoso, not everyone has a bottom. My AM is the perfect example of that. When she hits the ground, she grabs a shovel and starts digging.
And I agree with zoso, not everyone has a bottom. My AM is the perfect example of that. When she hits the ground, she grabs a shovel and starts digging.
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