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Old 01-17-2015, 04:36 AM
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Emotions are Contagious

Day 17 today.

Going strong and finding more strength and drive in outlook and approach.

I never realised I was becoming negative - especially in the last 3 months when I probably was focused on drinking as much as I could. Last night on nightshift I was making a point of smiling and calling people by first name (instead of just general g'day or hi) to hide my anxiety and stress which was expectedly a bit high.
Made me think after that shift that over the half the people on last (20 working) night told me in passing at different points that I seemed so much happier in the couple of days / weeks.
Beer was obviously increasing my negativity of late and pushing me to the outcast land of depressive or whinger.

It was interesting for me to see again that we enjoy positive happy people and are more inclined to worry for those - when in fact last night my 'happy positive self' was more an act to hide a bit of anxiety. In the end I felt on top of the world with all the compliments and knowledge people do care even when they don't know or understand.

Life's always better when you search for a reason to say thanks or compliment and never when you whinge, complain or condeme
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Old 01-17-2015, 06:02 AM
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Congrats on Day 17!
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Old 01-17-2015, 06:14 AM
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Congrats on 17 days Chances
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Originally Posted by ChancesAh View Post
Life's always better when you search for a reason to say thanks or compliment and never when you whinge, complain or condeme
Love this.

Awesome job.

More power to you Chances!
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Old 01-17-2015, 06:41 AM
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I TOTALLY agree on the emotions thing. So happy to hear you're being happier - it's even contagious to yourself.
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Old 01-17-2015, 08:10 AM
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Absolutely true. What you put out there is what comes back at you.
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Old 01-17-2015, 09:03 AM
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congrats on 17 days, Chances
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Old 01-17-2015, 09:41 AM
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Great post and congrats on day 17!
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I also found that to be true ChancesAh - great stuff

congrats on 17 days

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Fab post and well done on 17 days!!!! X
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Old 01-17-2015, 07:45 PM
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Way to go Chances, stay positive!
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That's awesome Chances And so true. Sometimes I struggle, but I try to see the Divine in every being I come into contact with. It works.
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