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Old 12-31-2014, 04:22 PM
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"These must be for your kids"

The title of this post is what the check-out lady said to me this evening as I was buying supplies for our quiet little New Year's Eve celebration. She had just finished scanning two bottles of sparkling juice.

"Yes," I said. "And for me too," I added quickly.

"Really?" she asked in borderline disbelief.

"Sure. My drinking days are over."

"Not even wine? How do you do that?"

"Trust me. I've drank enough for a lifetime. I'm done with all that nonsense now - those days are long-gone. I still celebrate...just in a different way which I'm learning is just as fun. More so in fact."

She shook her head, muttered something under her breath and kept on scanning the rest of my purchases. As I walked away (with my head held high and proud mind you), I thought about her statement:

"These must be for your kids."

She's was right in more ways than one. Yes, my kids will partake of the juice at midnight right along with me. But they also get an added bonus of having a sober, present mom. It's the best New Year's Eve gift I could ever give them...and me too!

Happy 2015 to my marvelous SR family! I love you all more than you know. You saved my life in 2014 and I will forever be grateful to each of you.

“Tomorrow is a new day. You shall begin it well & serenely and with too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense. This day ... is too dear with its hopes and invitations to waste a moment on the rotten yesterdays.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Old 12-31-2014, 04:23 PM
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Happy sober New Year!
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Old 12-31-2014, 04:25 PM
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great post hearts - thank you
Happy New Year

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Old 12-31-2014, 04:27 PM
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Love this post! I too will be drinking sparkling juice with my kids as we celebrate this New Year. Enjoy and congrats!!
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Old 12-31-2014, 04:28 PM
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Wonderful post, heartsafire! Have a lovely NYE with your loved ones.

One of my pet peeves is cashiers who comment on my purchases. It just drives me up the wall!
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Old 12-31-2014, 04:30 PM
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Hearts you are fantastic

you are such an awesome person

love reading your posts

Happy new year Hearts wishin you the best in 2015
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Old 12-31-2014, 04:32 PM
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When I bought my sparkling water today the cashier said, "Startin'early are ya?"!!!
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Old 12-31-2014, 04:32 PM
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Great post Hearts. Have a great NYE! Thanks for always checking in on me and your words and comments mean more than you will ever know. Have a great night tonight!
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Great post, Hearts! Happy New Year! I just popped open my bottle of Martinellis. Yum!
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Great post! Happy New Year, Hearts!
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Old 12-31-2014, 06:28 PM
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Old 12-31-2014, 07:25 PM
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That's a great story and an inspirational post. Thank you heartsafire. Have a wonderful sober new years with your kids. They will love being with you as a healthy mom.
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Old 12-31-2014, 07:37 PM
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Good stuff. It's so good to not be a slave to the drink!
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Old 12-31-2014, 07:46 PM
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Happy New Year, Hearts... I am happy for you, and wishing you just the best in the new year!
love the post. It makes my heart happy when someone has found their way again
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Love you, Hearts. Great post. Happy New Year.
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Old 12-31-2014, 08:57 PM
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Heck, yes! What an awesome post! Thank you so much for that and happy new year.
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Those kiddos got one sweet mama and to have her sober is a blessing on top of the one they already have by having you as a mommy

Enjoy!!! Cheers!! <3
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Fabulous! Happy new year!
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Old 01-01-2015, 01:27 AM
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Yaay HeartsAfire, yes 2014 was very special for us!!

My cashier at the store also noticed all my sparkly non-alcoholic drinks, & I also commented that I was sober & loving it.

"Ohhh, that's how I know you," she commented. Turns out she'd seen me at meetings, though I had never talked with her...

We are everywhere...

I send wishes to all of us here for a year of joy & growth & challenge & ease...

I resolve to take good care of myself, to nurture my body & spirit in every creative &
positive way I can in this coming year.
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Brill, hearts, happy new year to you and your family.xx
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