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How to breakup with my alcoholic boyfriend?
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How to breakup with my alcoholic boyfriend?
I'll cut to the chase....I welcome all suggestions. I fell in love with an alcoholic and have allowed myself to become a victim of alcoholism. I know I must break it off with him, but I don't know what to say, how to say it, etc.
Although we've only know eachother 5 months, I've gone above and beyond. But I worry about him, know that he needs me, and feel horrible for wanting to say the words "it's over."
I've come realize why he wouldn't spend nights with me....that's when he drinks. Haven't heard from him in a week....last time I saw him was 10am last Saturday...and he was still drunk from night before....he called me in a panic needing ride to work and was 2 hours late.
I want to just block his calls. Then I decide not to, in case he needs me/comes to his senses.
Thoughts? I know I worry more about him than he worries about me or himself....
Although we've only know eachother 5 months, I've gone above and beyond. But I worry about him, know that he needs me, and feel horrible for wanting to say the words "it's over."
I've come realize why he wouldn't spend nights with me....that's when he drinks. Haven't heard from him in a week....last time I saw him was 10am last Saturday...and he was still drunk from night before....he called me in a panic needing ride to work and was 2 hours late.
I want to just block his calls. Then I decide not to, in case he needs me/comes to his senses.
Thoughts? I know I worry more about him than he worries about me or himself....
Last edited by Txdude229; 12-27-2014 at 08:11 PM. Reason: Clarity
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I think maybe posting this in the friends and family section of this forum may provide you with more good advice than here. This section is for newcomers to recovery from alcoholism.
Good luck and I hope people in the Friends and Family section can offer some help. Hang in there!
Good luck and I hope people in the Friends and Family section can offer some help. Hang in there!
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I presume the OP posted here to get the alcoholic view? 
I think honesty is always the best policy.
Not answering calls is probably easier but I think breakups need an explanation.
Whether you text him or wait to see him is up to you I think?
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I think honesty is always the best policy.
Not answering calls is probably easier but I think breakups need an explanation.
Whether you text him or wait to see him is up to you I think?
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