Shutterbug1

I was ignoring his calls, then i decided i wanted to face him. It was very brief. I told him i have finally found it in myself to forgive him. I hope he will forgive himself and that i have forgiven myself for the mistakes i made. I told him i didn't want him to call me and to please stop calling my friends. He said ok and thank you.

Could this be the true end?

btw, forgiving myself and him is helping me tremendously!

LexieCat

I wouldn't count on his never contacting you again, if that's what you mean. But it could be the end of your jumping back into it. IF you take steps to enforce your no-contact boundary. Block his number, block his emails and texts, and if they get through, delete them without reading/listening.

Sungrl

You ask that question, almost as if you wish it weren't. True?

lillamy

That would be my course of action, too. You've told him you want him to stop calling. If you pick up the phone again, you show him that your words mean nothing.

AnvilheadII

asking unhealthy damaged people to respect our wishes and our boundaries and then expecting them to do so is often quite exasperating.

if YOU are truly done, then what HE does from now on WON'T MATTER.

FeelingGreat

It's completely up to you Shutterbug. Block his number and email and that will be that no matter how he feels.

Glad you're feeling better and are able to forgive.