Bettina1510

Hi,
I just wanted to introduce myself. This is my first visit to Sober Recovery. I am trying to get as much support as I can in my recovery from alcoholism. I have been struggling to stay stopped and had a disasterous relapse last night. It doesn't seem to matter how bad an experience I have with alcohol, I just seem to forget after a couple of weeks and tell myself I may be able to drink safely this time. Of course, I never can. Anyway, here's to another heartfelt bash at sobriety.

Mark1014

Welcome Bettina,

I was exactly where you are two months ago. What was different for me this time has been the SR site. Jump in and be active....often. You have made a big first step in the right direction.

Bettina1510

Thank you. It really helps not to feel so alone in this, especially with Christmas fast approaching! I going to try and put the work into my recovery this time.

Mark1014

Well that's great! For me, it was best to not think too far ahead because I found it overwhelming. For now I would recommend that you focus on what you need to do for the day at hand to not drink that day. Do you have any sort of plan/support?

PurpleKnight

Welcome to the Forum Bettina!!

Bettina1510

Yes, I am going to meetings and planning on asking someone to be my sponsor this week. I have always struggled with getting to meetings in the past. My husband works long hours and I can't leave my kids alone as they are too young. I now realise I have to try and put my recovery first.

Soberwolf

Welcome, Nice to meet you

Bettina1510

Nice to meet you too. I actually feel hopeful for the first time in months.

awholenewlife52

Welcome, Bettina, from a fellow Brit.

I'm struggling too just now, hugs to you, I hope we can both beat this. X

Mark1014

Bettina, you have reason to be hopeful...you can do it! Have you looked at your drinking patterns? What days of the week and times of day are you most at risk. I had to look at that and have specific plans for those times of vulnerability...especially the first three weeks or so.

least

Welcome to the family. I hope you find the help you need in AA and here.

Dee74

There's a lot of support understanding andencouragement here Bettina

SR helped me turn my life around and give me hope again - I know we can help you too

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Girlie928

Welcome, Bettina.

Jsbodhi

Hi welcome! Best wishes on your journey! We're all in the same boat here, strength in numbers!

Treerat66

Hi Bettina, welcome to SR.

JanieJ

Welcome from Wiltshire, Bettina

You can do this, there is lots of support and understanding here. x

BernieE

Welcome, Bettina, you can do this and be the mother you want to be. Caring for Small children can be very stressful. Can you get a sitter so you can attend your meetings? You'll find a lot of support here. Stay close!

martina12

Welcome from Sussex Bettina and also from a fellow Mum!

Soberpotamus

Welcome to SR, Bettina

luvmygirls

Welcome, Bettina! I can sympathize with your husband working long hours and having young kids at home. I hope you can find a way to work around it, and that you spend a lot of time here on SR.