I felt so strong, but this
I felt so strong, but this
I'm so sorry kids, I did everything and am now slipping. The holidays really **** with me. My son is gone with his ****** dad. Now I have to go to my mom's tomorrow. Bleach.
Hi MissOverIt,
I'm sorry - I know it must be upsetting - but drinking is not going to help - not one bit.
Don't buy any booze - and if you have - dump it. Now.
Stick with us here - there's support right across the holiday
If your mom's is 'blech' do you *have* to go?
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I'm sorry - I know it must be upsetting - but drinking is not going to help - not one bit.
Don't buy any booze - and if you have - dump it. Now.
Stick with us here - there's support right across the holiday
If your mom's is 'blech' do you *have* to go?
D
A lot of other SR members have had great Thanksgiving volunteering at shelters and things like that - dunno if that's your thing but it would be a nice and meaningful way to pass at least some of the day
Then there's a lot to be said for just enjoying the space and peace of home too
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Then there's a lot to be said for just enjoying the space and peace of home too
D
You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. In the beginning of my sobriety I just treated the holidays just like any other day and tried to stop worrying about them.
Don't give in to your AV, you will just feel worse. Tell your AV to take a hike.
Don't give in to your AV, you will just feel worse. Tell your AV to take a hike.
Oh don't do it! I so almost drank today, was literally doing 15 min by 15 at one point. AA wasn't the best. But I just got takeout and came here, now I'm good, going to go to bed shortly, thankfully made it through the day, and even though it was a bad day I feel like a million bucks because I didn't drink.
People have been saying to me, play the tape of where the drinking will lead, do that!
Also, none wants a day 1 again! Don't have a day one again.
Sorry, I started rambling about myself in this post. My point was, if I can make it through the day, so can you <3
People have been saying to me, play the tape of where the drinking will lead, do that!
Also, none wants a day 1 again! Don't have a day one again.
Sorry, I started rambling about myself in this post. My point was, if I can make it through the day, so can you <3
I'm the same, I'm a hider. I would binge drink alone in my house. I still haven't admitted to many people I'm an alcoholic, but I am doing it a bit, on here mostly and in AA, and to my friend in prison who is there as a direct result of drinking and drugs. Took me a while to even admit it to myself. This week actually :/
I feel better with the support though, I think you will too.
I feel better with the support though, I think you will too.
You have people all over the world in your corner - you're not alone
Maybe it would be best to get out of the house tomorrow tho, then.
Do something you want to do - something life affirming and positive?
Maybe it would be best to get out of the house tomorrow tho, then.
Do something you want to do - something life affirming and positive?
Totally not alone. I felt like the biggest piece of sh$t in the world last week, seriously. Everyday is getting better.
Even if you have to lose some people, you'll gain others. Life is funny like that
Even if you have to lose some people, you'll gain others. Life is funny like that
LOL I'm glad the booze is gone but the friends bit? nah.
If recovery meant living a lonely monastic life with no friends no one would stay sober.
Give yourself a little time to make a new life and find new friends
I thought sobriety was going to be an ending but it was a beginning, truly
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If recovery meant living a lonely monastic life with no friends no one would stay sober.
Give yourself a little time to make a new life and find new friends
I thought sobriety was going to be an ending but it was a beginning, truly
D
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