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Old 11-23-2014, 09:10 AM
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Didnt wait for Monday to be day 1!

I just wanted to thank everyone who yesterday said why wait until Monday to stop drinking.

It's 5.05pm in the UK and I've just got back from the shop with Pepsi Max, crisps and cheese, but no wine!!!! My daughter gets dropped off at 5.30pm and then I'm not able to go back to the shop!

I feel nervous, excited ...... I'm really doing day one again, but I'm doing it now! Not tomorrow.

I hope you all have a lovely day/evening and thank you again.

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Old 11-23-2014, 09:13 AM
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Yay, Natasha!

Congrats on day one.

You might want to give some thought to a plan for how to STAY sober. SR is great, but I found in-person support at AA to be invaluable.
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Old 11-23-2014, 09:21 AM
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Thank you!

I'm going to try to plan each day this week so that it involves lots of fun activities with my daughter after school and going to the gym and swimming when I can.

Do you have any other ideas you could share?

Thanks ever so much.

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Old 11-23-2014, 09:24 AM
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Well, like I said, AA is great. I went to a meeting a day for 90 days--it was something positive I was doing for my recovery every single day. I read recovery books, I spent time in places that didn't remind me of alcohol.

I did a lot of my drinking at home, so a meeting during those times also got me out of that rut.
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Old 11-23-2014, 09:27 AM
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That's awesome, blossom! I'm so proud of you! Being a sober mom is the greatest gift we can give our children. Your daughter will reap massive rewards!
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Old 11-23-2014, 09:31 AM
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You got this Natasha!!
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Old 11-23-2014, 09:32 AM
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Old 11-23-2014, 09:32 AM
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Well done, Natasha! That's a brilliant decision
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Old 11-23-2014, 09:33 AM
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Congratulations on your decision, Natasha

I found diet fizz really helpful so your Pepsi Max is a good call - It's only a few hours - and even if you do have a bit of difficulty dropping off to sleep - when you wake up you'll have to pinch yourself to check if how good you feel is actually real! Well I do anyway

All the best mate - if you do feel desperate just log on here for a couple of minutes or try the crash course in AVRT.......

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Old 11-23-2014, 09:37 AM
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Way to go, Natasha, keep posting and stick by us if you're feeling tempted or want to talk.

And bonus....... No hangover in the morning, that's gotta be a plus.x
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Old 11-23-2014, 10:06 AM
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Way to go Natasha im so glad you didnt wait till monday... here are some support threads that will hopefully help

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...t-25-a-22.html

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...t-42-a-12.html

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...rt-3-a-13.html

Well done Natasha
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Old 11-23-2014, 10:22 AM
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Oh yes! Please join the class of November group . Congratulations on a wise decision and for starting to makes plans.
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Old 11-23-2014, 10:44 AM
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You're all amazing. Thank you so much!

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Old 11-23-2014, 11:27 AM
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So glad you are getting sober tonight. Natasha. Post if you need too.

You' ll be fine, lean on us.
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Old 11-23-2014, 11:32 AM
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Congratulations on making a good decision. Today is a great day to start your new life.
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Old 11-23-2014, 11:46 AM
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It's 7.45pm. I've kissed my daughter goodnight and I've got into bed too. I'm all snuggled and I'm going to treat myself to a film.

I'm feeling good right now and right now is what matters at this very moment!

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Old 11-23-2014, 12:44 PM
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Thats it Natasha well done you
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Old 11-23-2014, 12:47 PM
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Congrats on a great choice Natasha. Let this be your last day 1.
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Old 11-23-2014, 12:48 PM
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Great job Natasha
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