Arbor

Drinking always gave me something to do. There was always a goal to achieve. And that goal of course was to get drunk. So now during social situations I sometimes feel uncomfortable or anxious. It's hard for me to just sit, relax, and enjoy the situation for what it is. I've learned that I'm a very production oriented person. A work horse that's been trained this way for most of my life. I now need to learn and practice on taking time to enjoy the simple moments in life when still. Right now this is a key factor in maintaining my sobriety. I know it will take time to transition into this next chapter of life but it sure beats the hell out of that drunken haze. Sobriety is now the new goal.

SoberLeigh

And a fine one, at that, Arbor8; congratulations; embrace the journey.

Altoids

I have to agree with you. It is the most worthy goal I can think of Because I truly love my family, the best thing I can do is take care of myself, make me the healthiest I can be. . . what better goal than to be the best you EVER. YAY for you!!!

Mark1014

Well stated Arbor8, I relate to every word of your post.

PurpleKnight

Great stuff Arbor!!