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Old 10-24-2014, 04:03 AM
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3 months today since she has passed

My daughter is gone and God I miss her. Sober but so tired of feeling so bad. I do not even remember what feeling good is like.

Looking for a fix that doesn't exist
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Old 10-24-2014, 04:04 AM
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I'm sorry, MIRecovery. I wish there was something I could say.
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Old 10-24-2014, 04:20 AM
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Hugs and positive thoughts to you, MIRecovery.
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Old 10-24-2014, 04:20 AM
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I'm so sorry MiRecovery.
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Old 10-24-2014, 04:21 AM
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(((((MIRecovery))))) I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine. Thinking of you.
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Old 10-24-2014, 04:22 AM
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Im so sorry MI
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Old 10-24-2014, 04:22 AM
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I'm sorry too MIR. Have you thought of seeing someone professionally about your grief?

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Old 10-24-2014, 04:26 AM
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very sorry for your loss MIR, wish you well as you continue through your grieving process
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Old 10-24-2014, 04:33 AM
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Sorry for what you are going through.

My thoughts are with you.
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Old 10-24-2014, 04:38 AM
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Big hugs to you.
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Old 10-24-2014, 04:44 AM
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Old 10-24-2014, 05:00 AM
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Having just lost my mother, I understand your feelings. There's a feeling of emptiness. A big hole in your heart.

I see a counselor and it helps. Can you get some counseling to help you thru this?
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Old 10-24-2014, 05:05 AM
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My condolences.
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Old 10-24-2014, 05:24 AM
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So sorry, MI. (((())))) Grief counselling may help you.
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Old 10-24-2014, 05:42 AM
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I too have known loss and for me the grief has lessened with time and been replaced with heart felt memories and love. Take care of yourself.
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Old 10-24-2014, 05:53 AM
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Hugging you, MIR. Hugging you more, dear.
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Old 10-24-2014, 05:53 AM
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Dear MIRecovery
You are sober and helping many others to achieve/maintain their sobriety.
I am sure your daughter is in a safe place now, with God. I'll bet she would want you to continue as you are, helping others.

" And so beside the tideless sea, I await the muffled oar.
No harm can come from Him to me, on ocean or on shore.

I know not where his islands lift their fronded palms in air.
I only know I cannot drift beyond His love and care."
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Old 10-24-2014, 06:48 AM
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Thank you all for the kind words.

Sometimes the grief just washes over you and you feel like you are drowning but it passes and life goes on
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Old 10-24-2014, 06:52 AM
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Sorry, MI. I hope in time the good memories will give you comfort.
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Old 10-24-2014, 07:07 AM
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I'm very sorry.
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