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A stark reminder of what used to be

Old 10-22-2014, 04:40 AM
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A stark reminder of what used to be

My son needed money for a field trip yesterday. I went to my wallet to see if I had any cash. Normally, I don't have any, so I anticipated having to go to the ATM.

Instead, I discovered a cash stash that I put away weeks ago, *just in case* I wanted that 40 oz. bottle (or two) at the end of a long, stressful day, and didn't want my bank statement to record the purchase.

I hadn't checked my cash amount since late September, before I ended my alcohol consumption for good.

It saddened and shocked me to think that: 1) alcohol was that much of a priority to me, and 2) that booze was actually competing with commitments to my kids in terms of cash supply.

I'm so thankful to have changed my ways before it got much worse.

Just another reminder of what used to be, and also another bit of motivation to keep going on the sobriety journey.
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Old 10-22-2014, 04:45 AM
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Rock on, Dad!
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Old 10-22-2014, 05:27 AM
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Love this post as Trach's said Rock on Dad
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Old 10-22-2014, 05:57 AM
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We were all that way once, brother. Try not to dwell on it. Just be the best dad today.
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Old 10-22-2014, 05:59 AM
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score one for sobriety! way to go!
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Old 10-22-2014, 06:19 AM
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That was a great result, I'm looking forward to the day when lack of cash from binging is no longer an issue for me!!

Well done, sounds great!
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Old 10-22-2014, 07:29 AM
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Great post 5KRunner, well done!
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Old 10-22-2014, 07:54 AM
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Keep putting cash aside like you had been, call it the "Fun Charity", use it for something very special for you and your family

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Old 10-22-2014, 08:01 AM
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I used to do the same. Replace all my cash in the wallet with withdrawal slip from the bank.
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Old 10-22-2014, 09:57 AM
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Sobriety just keeps on giving!!
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Old 10-22-2014, 02:10 PM
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Awesome! It's crazy in hindsight how much alcohol affects us in even the smallest ways. Yet another to continue on the road to recovery!

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Old 10-22-2014, 02:23 PM
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Glad you could provide for your son now that you're sober.
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Old 10-22-2014, 02:41 PM
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Sobriety's a solid investment, no? Great job 5k. Keep up the good work you're doing now and tomorrow.
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