my boyfriend
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my boyfriend
hello,
i did not know where to go so i came here my boyfriend was a recovering addict and now i think he has relapsed. the first relapse he had i was just friends with him and now it is totally different have not herd from him in almost 72 hours. no one really has herd from him but one person so i know he is alive I'm just worried. I'm going crazy. i know he is ok but i just dont know what to do. do i just sit and wait for him to call and text me or should i try and call him. im just happy to know that he is ok. i just wish that i knew what he was doing.
i did not know where to go so i came here my boyfriend was a recovering addict and now i think he has relapsed. the first relapse he had i was just friends with him and now it is totally different have not herd from him in almost 72 hours. no one really has herd from him but one person so i know he is alive I'm just worried. I'm going crazy. i know he is ok but i just dont know what to do. do i just sit and wait for him to call and text me or should i try and call him. im just happy to know that he is ok. i just wish that i knew what he was doing.
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hi sadeyes 
I don't think there's anything wrong in you trying to contact him...he may not want to speak to you if he has relapsed tho.
If you don't have any experience with this at all, you'll find a lot of people around on SR who've been where you are.
I can recommend the Friends and Family forums particularly here
The Alcoholism and Addictions Help Forums- by SoberRecovery.com
we're here to support you
I don't think there's anything wrong in you trying to contact him...he may not want to speak to you if he has relapsed tho.
If you don't have any experience with this at all, you'll find a lot of people around on SR who've been where you are.
I can recommend the Friends and Family forums particularly here
The Alcoholism and Addictions Help Forums- by SoberRecovery.com
we're here to support you
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I'm sorry you are going through this. I have experienced the crazies of dealing with someone else's addiction. It's nerve wracking and totally unfair and I lost a lot of sleep over worrying about their behavior. I didn't handle it well at all, and I wish I had done things differently. We do the best we can with what we have to work with. What I didn't have at that time was AlAnon and Codependents Anonymous and some lessons on tough love. I'd start there.
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