hez1979

Kinda thought I'd all this figured out and could moderate... I really can't... Life's going to **** again and my children are suffering... They deserve more

least

They deserve more and so do you! What are you going to do now to stop drinking for good? There are lots of ways to stay sober. Find the way that works for you.

Dim

Hez the best thing about it is you've realised this and you're here for support again. I know I can't moderate, and for this reason complete abstinence is the only solution xx

hez1979

Thanks guys.... It really has to happen now xxx

Mags1

Give it a go, hez, it really is worth the discomfort for a while to enjoy your life with your family and no alcohol regrets.

endlesspatience

We are all giving it a go here. Point is, we're giving it a go together and that's a lot easier than trying to tackle it alone.

hez1979

I am going to try again xxx thanks folks

Dee74

Hi Hez...

yeah the only time I could ever be really sure I'd figured it out is when I realised for good that I'm a lousy drinker.

Once you take drinking as a viable option off the table, things really do get better...it may not be straight away, but it will happen

Have you got a plan Hez?

D

MythOfSisyphus

Well, at least now you know, Hez. Looks like it's time to quit once and for all.

hez1979

I've changes jobs... My plan has to be keeping busy... It's going to destroy me otherwise.... I guess it's day 1 again xxx

Soberwolf

Hope this helps


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Treerat66

Hi Hez,

Climb aboard, we've saved you a seat.

hez1979

Don't feel that bad today... Looking forward to bed though.... Mentally I feel rubbish but physically I'm no that bad!! Xxx

Cecilia44

Welcome hez. Just take it one day at a time and you can do it.

Hugs.

PurpleKnight

You can turn this around hez!!

Tweak your plan and go at it again, you can do this!!

hez1979

Thanks all xxx

luvmygirls

Hi Hez! My children are one of my main motivators for getting and staying sober. We can do this. For me, the possibility of moderating is what gets me every single time. Intellectually, I KNOW I can't...but my AV is mighty persuasive when I've been in the house with my crazy kids for a few hours. Hang in there.

Anna

Hi Hez,

I'm glad you are making the decision to stop drinking for good.