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Old 10-05-2014, 07:31 PM
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Alcohol wants us dead

A friend of mines nephew committed suicide after a long binge. I met him multiple times in one of my meetings. He would come in beat to crap by alcohol then go for 2 to 3 weeks and disappear until he would show up again. Unfortunately he didn't have one more recovery left

I never underestimate my foe because I have seen far too many pay the ultimate price for complacency.

My first sponsor told me if I was around AA for very long I had to get used to stepping over the bodies. I thought he was exaggerating but I now know he was deadly serious
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Old 10-05-2014, 07:55 PM
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MIR... I am sorry this happened.... I also had people around me passing (including taking their life) due to addiction and other mental illness... It makes me remember how bizarre and fascinating it is that we are here each day.
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Old 10-05-2014, 08:12 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss, MIR. It does go to show how dangerous drinking can be. Tales like this make me grateful I'm not still out there drinking, and remind me what can happen if I go back out.
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Old 10-05-2014, 08:14 PM
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I'm sorry for the loss of this young guys life.

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Old 10-05-2014, 08:15 PM
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I am so sorry to hear this. I understand first hand how sadly it can end this way. Yes, addiction will see us dead if we let it.

Let's not let it.
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Old 10-05-2014, 08:18 PM
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This is so sad, I never get used to reading post like this and am constantly reminded that many people do not get back up from rock bottom....
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Old 10-05-2014, 10:32 PM
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Very sad.
Yes, in a room alone, curtains drawn, sad songs on the player and surrounded by empty bottles.
Then dead.
That's where it will take me if i don't let in the light and air.
Today i will do whatever it takes.
Thank you for the reminder.
Again , very sad to lose another.
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Old 10-05-2014, 11:14 PM
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A timely reminder of what can be waiting for us if we go back out there again.
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Old 10-05-2014, 11:22 PM
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It does want us dead. It takes our family, our friends, our money, our jobs, our self respect. This really is a sad situation, i'm sorry to hear this.
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Old 10-06-2014, 06:45 AM
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sad news, and a dose of reality.

I remind myself that if I were to have a 'next time' with DUI - I'd be going to prison.

And if I didn't have a 'next time' with DUI but let drinking back in my life.... the other option could very likely be death.

this is nothing to play around with.... the road keeps on dragging us toward tragedy. Some faster than others, but all with the same end result. And along the way.... misery.

It's utter insanity that we keep trying to convince ourselves the risks are 'worth it'.
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Old 10-06-2014, 06:56 AM
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Sad, sorry the young man and all family.

It is critical you posted this, I needed to read it as well as others. The message is loud and clear = The gift of sobriety and the opportunity to use that gift my never reappear.

prayers....
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Old 10-06-2014, 07:51 AM
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Old 10-06-2014, 08:13 AM
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Alcohol wants us DEAD.

God wants us ALIVE.

I'm so very sorry this happened
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Old 10-06-2014, 08:13 AM
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I am so sorry to hear this. Another life stolen by addiction. It is indeed tragic.
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Old 10-06-2014, 08:20 AM
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That is why WE have to stand strong with
Faith, Fellowship, Service within recovery
to ward off KING ALCOHOL/ADDICTION.

It can do all it wants to tempt or bring
US down, but won't get thru a Strong
Recovery Suit of Armor.

RIGHT?
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Old 10-06-2014, 10:15 AM
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Very sad news!!
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