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Old 09-29-2014, 06:13 AM
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Day 3 - I think my head is gonna explode. Warning: Rant Alert!

I'm tired, tense, cranky, run down and feeling altogether ******!! My other half is at home with the TV on and every single thing on it is pissing me off! I'm trying to be nice because she's not feeling well, but my head is all over the place. Sorry for ranting!!!
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Old 09-29-2014, 06:38 AM
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You just have to try to relax a bit and get through this. The first few days are usually very difficult, but you can do it. Congratulations for getting to Day 3.
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Old 09-29-2014, 07:19 AM
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Congrats on day 3. You are having a bad day. But tomorrow will be better. Your worst day sober is far better than your worst day drunk, right?
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I am right there with you. It's difficult to live with other people while trying to get sober (my husband and kids are my main triggers...go figure!) You can do this. Stay strong and hang in there.
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Hang in there i used to keeep doing press ups in early recovery to get rid of anger

stop for 5 and go again and again and again

trust me gets rid of frustration
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I was like that for quite a while.

I tried to be as quiet as possible, that way I couldn't get in any trouble.
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Old 09-29-2014, 07:56 AM
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Hang in there i used to keeep doing press ups in early recovery to get rid of anger

stop for 5 and go again and again and again

trust me gets rid of frustration
Yep, you're right. I'm gonna try and do a few weights etc. in the morning, it always makes me feel better. I'm still feeling the effects of my last binge though so am likely to throw up if I try much in the way of exercising at the moment.
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Oh yes! Totally normal. It lifted after a few days. Awesome job on your time!
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You can do this james were all with you
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Old 09-29-2014, 09:31 AM
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Hey James, I'm on day four and feeling the same. Also crying a lot. Hang in there dude!
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Day 3 is early days, hang in there, it gets better!!
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Old 09-29-2014, 11:11 AM
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Day 3 was when the anxiety and paranoia hit me. I thought of all sorts of conspiracy theories against me.
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Old 09-29-2014, 11:47 AM
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Day 3 blows, I am never doing that again

But ...well no but it just blows.

I did a good Forrest Gump impression , went for a Looong walk, exercise wise not too bad, one foot in front of the other just keep doing it, oh and its a metaphor too, day 4 may be better, but .. if not , you still gotta power through, you can do it, just stick to it, and again yep it blows
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Old 09-29-2014, 12:10 PM
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Just wanted to add to the above, it does blow, but You Can Do It, know you can and do it
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Old 09-29-2014, 12:44 PM
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Thanks everybody, I've calmed down and got some perspective now. I became a victim to my negative thinking/feelings earlier, but have managed to get a handle on it. Day 4 tomorrow and ready for it.
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how has day 4 been?
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Better days are ahead James, I promise

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Old 09-30-2014, 04:57 PM
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Yeah how are you doing
Yesterday forgot to say that although day 3,4 can be difficult, I would not trade day +365 for anything, you just have to 'do' the other ones first
Hope all is well and hope to see you around soon
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Old 09-30-2014, 05:13 PM
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James I hope you got through yesterday and made it onto Day 4 today.
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Oh oh...I am heading into day 3 tomorrow ...thanks for the warnings
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