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Old 07-19-2014, 03:49 PM
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Drama Queens and Molehills

So, does anyone else, while in the throws of addiction or recovering, make mountains out of molehills, take many things way too personally, have trouble letting go, and seem to cause problems when their really isn't any?
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Old 07-19-2014, 03:56 PM
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First few months I was on an emotional roller coaster, I now understand my body needed to adjust from years of drinking to not having any alcohol, that was going to take time and my emotions took time to level out as my body was dealing with that!!

Hang in there, things got easier with time!!
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Old 07-19-2014, 04:23 PM
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Thank you Purpleknight . Sometimes I wonder if Im crazy....I never used to be this emotionally unstable. I guess Ill just have to accept the moodswings and try to relax, and know Ill come out better in the end.
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Old 07-19-2014, 04:27 PM
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That is very very common.
Journalling helps.

A daily gratitude list may help too

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I think I also get selfish and make everything about me....like I have to be the centre of attention. I never used to be like that either.
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Old 07-19-2014, 06:26 PM
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If it helps, sometimes I get completely worked up over imaginary confrontations that are not likely to happen!
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Old 07-19-2014, 06:28 PM
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Me too, Forgetful Kevin, me too. My imagine often gets the better of me.
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Old 07-19-2014, 06:33 PM
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It's very common to feel like a basket case in early recovery. Stay sober and it will get better.
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Old 07-19-2014, 06:34 PM
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I think we have to learn how to deal with stuff in the real world, with no alcohol.

I suspect that each day you will feel stronger and more at peace. I found the Serenity Prayer was SO helpful for me because it reminded me that I'm really not in control of anything, but me.
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Yes, it is quite common. It shall pass.
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