OT: Hack your psychology with your password

Old 07-16-2014, 03:23 PM
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OT: Hack your psychology with your password

I shared this story with someone today. It's long-ish, but well worth the read. We all use computers every day. What if we used something as simple as a password to psychologically change our way of thinking? I'll include the link to the original story in the comments, cause, you know, I don't *really* plagiarize.

"How could she do something like this to me?" said a voice in my head. All the time. Every day.

Back in 2011, when everything had gradients, iOS icons made sense, and people used deodorants, I was stuck in middle of a pretty bad depression due to my divorce.

Thankfully, I think I was smart enough (and had great people around me) so I managed my way out.

One day I walk into the office, and my day begins at my computer screen. It was all great, until I saw this message:

Your password has expired.
Click 'Change password' to change your password.

No ****. I thought clicking 'Change password' was gonna do something else.

I read this dumb message in my mind with angry grandpa voice: The damn password has expired.

At my workplace, the Microsoft Exchange server is configured to ask thousands of employees around the planet to change their passwords. Every 30 days.

Here is the horseshit: The server forces us to use at least one UPPERCASE character, at least one lowercase alphabetic character, at least one symbol and at least one number. Oh, and the whole damn thing can't be less than eight characters. And I can't use any of the same passwords I've used in the last three months.

I was furious that morning. Tuesday, 9:40 a.m. It was so hot that my torso was already sweaty even though I just got to work. I was late. I was still wearing my helmet. I think I forgot breakfast. Something tastes like cigarette in my mouth. I need to get **** done before my 10 a.m. meeting and all I have in front of me is a huge waste of my time.

So there it was... this input field with a pulsating cursor, waiting for me to type a password that I'll have to re-enter for the next 30 days. Many times during the day.

Then, letting all the frustration go, I remembered a tip I heard from my former boss.

I'm gonna use a password to change my life.

It was obvious that I couldn't focus on getting things done with my current lifestyle and mood. Of course, there were clear indicators of what I needed to do -- or what I had to achieve -- in order to regain control of my life, but we often don't pay attention to these clues.

My password became the indicator. My password reminded me that I shouldn't let myself be victim of my recent break up, and that I'm strong enough to do something about it.

My password became: "Forgive@h3r"

I had to type this statement several times a day. Each time my computer would lock. Each time my screensaver with her photo would appear. Each time I would come back from eating lunch alone.

In my mind, I went with the mantra that I didn't type a password. In my mind, I wrote "Forgive her" every day, for one month.

That simple action changed the way I looked at my ex wife. That constant reminder that I should forgive her, led me to accept the way things happened at the end of my marriage, and embrace a new way of dealing with the depression that I was drowning into.

In the following days, my mood improved drastically. By the end of the second week, I noticed that this password became less powerful, and it started to lose its effect. A quick refresh of this 'mantra' helped me. I thought to myself I forgive her as I typed it, every time. The healing effect of it came back almost immediately.

One month later, my dear exchange server asked me again to renew my password. I thought about the next thing I had to get done.

My password became Quit@smoking4ever

And guess what happened. I **** you not. I quit smoking overnight. This password was a painful one to type during that month, but doing it helped me to yell at myself in my mind, as I typed that statement. It motivated me to follow my monthly goal.

One month later, my password became Save4trip@thailand

Guess where I went three months later. Thailand. With savings.

OP: Huffington post- Mauricio Estrella (I can't post a link yet. Still too new. lol)
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Old 07-18-2014, 06:53 PM
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That would be pretty cool if it worked

thanks for posting the article. something to consider, isn't it?
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Old 07-20-2014, 04:38 AM
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I love this post. I was away when you first posted but reading it this morning it just made such wonderful sense to me...use mantras to get through our days and if we have anything repetitive, like passwords, incorporate something uplifting into it.

How profoundly simple this sounds, but what a great way to slap our attitude back to a better place.

Thanks for this uplifter.

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Old 07-20-2014, 06:11 AM
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When I quit my cubicle job and started my own business I changed my email password to Iwillmakeplentyofmoney! And guess what -- I did!

I never thought of doing this for other areas of my life. Now I am going to change my password to lose#50lbsbyYE.

Great post!
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Old 07-20-2014, 02:09 PM
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I do this too...my most recent password is happytobeme1
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