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Old 07-14-2014, 08:56 PM
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Ex fiancee left himself logged in on the laptop via email, I see he's told my ex future in laws we've broken up as they sent him a cryptic email....not sure what to say to that. No idea what or how much he told them.

:/ Hope these bridges can be unburned.
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Old 07-14-2014, 09:04 PM
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shouldn't have looked at it but went to check my ***** and his popped up couldn't help but see the first sentence as it previews....
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Old 07-14-2014, 09:15 PM
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While you can't change what you've done, Staying sober is your best bet to repair the damage of the past. It does take time though and not everything is always fixable.
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Old 07-14-2014, 09:22 PM
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Staying sober is priority. Quitting drinking always helps relationships. Keep going forward.
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Old 07-15-2014, 02:30 AM
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Sobreity is the way forward, knuckle down and keep pushing through!!
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Old 07-15-2014, 04:09 AM
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You can't un-burn burnt bridges. They have to be rebuilt. They'll only be strong and durable if you're sober for the rebuilding.

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Old 07-15-2014, 04:39 AM
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Old 07-15-2014, 05:05 AM
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What ScottfromWI said. Also, I'm in a similar circumstance and I KNOW that I'll never make it right with my partner until I show him that I can stay sober. I'm convinced it is the best thing to do right now (for me and you). Hang in there! Things will get better.
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Old 07-15-2014, 05:37 AM
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A bit better today. I'm scared he's only telling me if I stay sober there's a chance of us getting. Back together because he knows it's what I want to hear.

You know how addicts have the mentality of instant gratification? I just want it all fixed now lol
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Old 07-15-2014, 07:23 AM
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Originally Posted by lawgirl82 View Post
You know how addicts have the mentality of instant gratification? I just want it all fixed now lol
OK, repeat after me:

"I don't drink."

Repeat as necessary. Fixed. Now.
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