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Old 06-18-2014, 12:02 PM
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Loneliness

The feeling of constant pain and self personality criticism due to your situation and social inability to change your situation

I got this little tidbit under the definition of "Lonelieness" from the Urban Dictionary.

Is it my imagination but does that not sound exactly like addiction?
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Old 06-18-2014, 12:14 PM
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It sounds a lot like it. Loneliness is also what caused me to seek refuge in the drink as well as one of the greatest challenges to face in getting sober.

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2. Urban dictionary is an awesome tool if you need laughter. Some really great words to spice up ones verbage!
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Old 06-18-2014, 12:22 PM
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In all my years, the one truth I have learned (time and again):

Each time I have thought life is the worst it can ever be, or the best it can ever be...it can get worse and it can get better. But hey?!. 'That's life'.

Admitting addiction for me is saying 'yes, this is true' (Duh!) and staying committed to not going through life alone.

And admission is a lot of other things...'loneliness', by any definition, happily not being one of them.

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Old 06-18-2014, 12:25 PM
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I think that loneliness is similar to the idea of that "void" we often speak of. The void that we try to fill with addictive substances and behaviors, which just expand it further instead of making it disappear.

The helplessness in these situations is what's most similar, probably.
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Originally Posted by ImperfectlyMe View Post
It sounds a lot like it. Loneliness is also what caused me to seek refuge in the drink as well as one of the greatest challenges to face in getting sober.

two things nuu
1. I'm really starting to see the nuu we all knew great post
2. Urban dictionary is an awesome tool if you need laughter. Some really great words to spice up ones verbage!
Awww..thanks IM.

Ya..as "alcohol" came up as one of the related words connected to loneliness I clicked on that definition to find this....

ALCOHOL: The cause of, and solution to all life's problems.
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How about LIFE: the beginning, the end, and everything in between.
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How about LIFE: the beginning, the end, and everything in between.
Thankfully, we are in that crucial in between part. Kinda makes one realize you can change it all around...any day in..the "in between".
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Hey nuu,
Speaking of in between, on our gravestones will read our birthdate & our day of dying, the little dash in between the two dates is our life,, it's what we make happen in the little dash that will really matter.
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