Hopefull
Hopefull
Checking in...Day two here once again. Feeling pretty awful right now physically. Maybe it's the pollen and allergies. After what seemed like a month long bender of drinking moderately I'm hoping I can cut my drinking out over time. Christ id be happy if I only drank once a week right now.
'A month long bender of drinking moderately'? Sorry but this does not compute!
I don't wish to be anything but sympathetic but alcoholics are great at self deception. I can say it because I am! Why not try a month long bender of quitting?
I don't wish to be anything but sympathetic but alcoholics are great at self deception. I can say it because I am! Why not try a month long bender of quitting?
Perhaps bender isn't the right word. Been drinking almost daily for the last month. 4-6 drinks per day. Sometimes more on weekends. I guess I still don't know if I'm an alcoholic yet. The big book discusses the difference between the heavy drinker and the alcoholic. Feel I've always been more of a heavy drinker. But how is that better? I can give it up for weeks, months even when I put my mind to it. I just always seem to return to the daily habit after some sober time.
I had to accept that everytime I drank, regardless of the quantity, it started the bad journey all over again - sooner or later I'd end up at the same dark place.
I didn't want to accept it - but I *needed* to arbor.
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I didn't want to accept it - but I *needed* to arbor.
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Also, I think I read something along these lines in another thread. The big book really doesn't do a good job of distinguishing the true alcoholic versus just a heavy drinker. If you were to categorize yourself as a heavy drinker you may never come to terms and continue drinking. Something I'm still dealing with over the past six months.
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