Since it IS Mother's Day...
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Since it IS Mother's Day...
I was going to call the ABF's mom and tell her happy Mother's Day.
She still refuses to speak to me.
I just think it would be a nice thing to do. Although I think I might want to text her instead. Or send her a card. Or something other than call, because I will have to leave a message and I hate doing that (in general, not just in this situation).
I don't want to make her mad, but it just seems like a nice thing to do.
And happy Mother's Day to everyone else out there!
She still refuses to speak to me.
I just think it would be a nice thing to do. Although I think I might want to text her instead. Or send her a card. Or something other than call, because I will have to leave a message and I hate doing that (in general, not just in this situation).
I don't want to make her mad, but it just seems like a nice thing to do.
And happy Mother's Day to everyone else out there!
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Update!
She called me back.
We had a nice talk. She said thanks for the text, she had a crappy mother's day, and I said, yeah me too. Which is why I did it in the first place-the woman lost her SON-mother's day would obviously be the best time to show her that someone else does care!
I knew it was the right thing to do. And honestly I didn't expect her to call me back at all. So anyway, we had a nice (considering the circumstances) talk. I told her how things really are here, because she has no idea-although as it turns out, the ABF did not lie to her as much as I thought he did. I am shocked.
As to his vehicle, she is going to allow me to be the local agent for the estate-after I get it appraised and figure out how much he owes in fines to the DMV, she will decide if she wants to keep it. I will either ship it to her or take it out there myself, depending. But we are both on the same page-the sister is not to get it, period.
And I told her I have pretty much everything he had, so she had some requests, which means I have to dig through my storage unit to look for this stuff, which will be hard, I am sure. I have been there twice and didn't last long either time.
So, yes, although I am far from glad about the circumstances that created this situation, I am glad I get to do the right thing. Finally. This is a huge relief. You have no idea. Words just can't express the feeling.
She called me back.
We had a nice talk. She said thanks for the text, she had a crappy mother's day, and I said, yeah me too. Which is why I did it in the first place-the woman lost her SON-mother's day would obviously be the best time to show her that someone else does care!
I knew it was the right thing to do. And honestly I didn't expect her to call me back at all. So anyway, we had a nice (considering the circumstances) talk. I told her how things really are here, because she has no idea-although as it turns out, the ABF did not lie to her as much as I thought he did. I am shocked.
As to his vehicle, she is going to allow me to be the local agent for the estate-after I get it appraised and figure out how much he owes in fines to the DMV, she will decide if she wants to keep it. I will either ship it to her or take it out there myself, depending. But we are both on the same page-the sister is not to get it, period.
And I told her I have pretty much everything he had, so she had some requests, which means I have to dig through my storage unit to look for this stuff, which will be hard, I am sure. I have been there twice and didn't last long either time.
So, yes, although I am far from glad about the circumstances that created this situation, I am glad I get to do the right thing. Finally. This is a huge relief. You have no idea. Words just can't express the feeling.
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