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Wife of an alcoholic
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Hello, I am married to a functioning alcoholic and seeking Godly support for myself so that I can be a positive support for him without enabling his addiction. We've been married 26.5 years. Thankfully he is not abusive in any way; he's a loving father and husband and always makes sure we are provided for. Unfortunately he is depressed and spends most of his weekend drunk and sleeping. It's so sad to watch. 3 of our 4 children are adults and living on their own. I'm finding it lonely now that my roll as mother is lessening. Not sure where I fit in or what I am to do. So here I am seeking friendships and support from those going through the same thing I am.
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Welcome! 
I'd suggest you take a look at our friends and family forum for further insight from people in your situation.
Friends and Family of Alcoholics - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
I'd suggest you take a look at our friends and family forum for further insight from people in your situation.Friends and Family of Alcoholics - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
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Kudos to you for reaching out. You have come to the right place. I cannot relate or can offer similar experiences.
I these forums treats you well--they are a variety to choose from (and I do believe there is one for Familes and Friends, which you can find when you scroll down from the Forums page: The Alcoholism and Addictions Help Forums- by SoberRecovery.com)
Has he mentioned looking for a way to seek help? If so, this could be an opening to offer a suggestion or two. I'd like others' opinions on this. Obviously you know him best and can predict how he takes advice.
Lots of love, take care
I these forums treats you well--they are a variety to choose from (and I do believe there is one for Familes and Friends, which you can find when you scroll down from the Forums page: The Alcoholism and Addictions Help Forums- by SoberRecovery.com)
Has he mentioned looking for a way to seek help? If so, this could be an opening to offer a suggestion or two. I'd like others' opinions on this. Obviously you know him best and can predict how he takes advice.
Lots of love, take care
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Originally Posted by GIMS 
Hello, I am married to a functioning alcoholic and seeking Godly support for myself so that I can be a positive support for him without enabling his addiction. We've been married 26.5 years. Thankfully he is not abusive in any way; he's a loving father and husband and always makes sure we are provided for. Unfortunately he is depressed and spends most of his weekend drunk and sleeping. It's so sad to watch. 3 of our 4 children are adults and living on their own. I'm finding it lonely now that my roll as mother is lessening. Not sure where I fit in or what I am to do. So here I am seeking friendships and support from those going through the same thing I am.
I'm sorry you feel this way at the moment and I hope things can improve for you both.
Wife of an alcoholic
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Join Date: May 2014
Location: Melbourne, FL
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Originally Posted by Dee74
Welcome GIMS
You'll find a lot of help and support in this forum too
have you been to ALAnon?
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You'll find a lot of help and support in this forum too
have you been to ALAnon?
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