Notices

At a mere 73 days, this is life.....

Thread Tools
 
Old 04-17-2014, 10:38 AM
  # 1 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Raider's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: North salt lake
Posts: 3,325
At a mere 73 days, this is life.....

So here we are, boom Shaka !! Don't know what others feel at this stage....I have cravings but they last such a short time. Took Fuzz to the vet yesterday, a little stressed. I got home and thought ok I'll have that drink now. What? I don't drink, in seconds real world stuff took over my thoughts and I moved on and didn't think about it again. This happens one or two times a week. Lasts for seconds and goes. Is this about right for my stage of recovery?

Boom Shaka boooom!!! Go sobriety!!!!
Raider is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 10:43 AM
  # 2 (permalink)  
Psalm 118:24
 
CAPTAINZING2000's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: ILLINOIS
Posts: 15,203
Buy a Harley
CAPTAINZING2000 is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 10:53 AM
  # 3 (permalink)  
Member
 
LBrain's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2014
Location: PA
Posts: 12,000
A mere 73 days... 73 DAYS is an accomplishment my dear!

So tell me. who was stressed? You or the FUZZ?

As time goes on you will have these thoughts less and less. I still get them occasionally at 110 days. But nothing major. Just fleeting thoughts.

You are doing OKAY my friend!
LBrain is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 12:06 PM
  # 4 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: C.C. Ma.
Posts: 3,697
Hi. Your thinking I would say is normal if your an alcoholic. Alcoholics think of alcohol in many situations. The important thing is not acting on the impulse and take the experience as a learning process. These impulses fade with time as we get healthier.

BE WELL
IOAA2 is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 12:09 PM
  # 5 (permalink)  
Hears The Voice
 
Nonsensical's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2013
Location: Unshackled
Posts: 7,901
Show off! I was about 83 days.

Good for you!
Nonsensical is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 12:11 PM
  # 6 (permalink)  
Member
 
ImperfectlyMe's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2013
Location: North East, US
Posts: 2,310
Congrats on 73! Yes yes yes this is what we were talking about when we said, "it gets better". And shhhhh guess what it's going to keep getting better and better and better, just keep that positive attitude!

I applaud you pam I know you're a hugger so big hug to you
ImperfectlyMe is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 12:16 PM
  # 7 (permalink)  
☀️⛳️
 
Stoogy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2014
Location: Scotland
Posts: 1,506
Originally Posted by Raider View Post
So here we are, boom Shaka !! Don't know what others feel at this stage....I have cravings but they last such a short time. Took Fuzz to the vet yesterday, a little stressed. I got home and thought ok I'll have that drink now. What? I don't drink, in seconds real world stuff took over my thoughts and I moved on and didn't think about it again. This happens one or two times a week. Lasts for seconds and goes. Is this about right for my stage of recovery?

Boom Shaka boooom!!! Go sobriety!!!!

Hi Raider, firstly hope Fuzz is doing okay? And 73 days is awesome, you should be justly proud of your achievement to date.
I'm not sure if the cravings will ever pass completely to be perfectly honest but they do pass very quickly like you say,
Take care Raider.
Stoogy is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 12:22 PM
  # 8 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Raider's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: North salt lake
Posts: 3,325
I think The Fuzz and myself were stressed. I am a bit amazed to see how quickly the urge passes. And I think it's a lot like smoking, it's the physical habit that I sometimes miss. And that is almost the only time it runs past my mind. The most dangerous thought that walks thru my brain is why did I quit drinking, was it that big of a deal?? Then I remember that feeling the other night when I passed out, I did not like that drunk dizzy feeling. I did not like that at all.
Thanks for the hugs Impurfect, yes I am a hugger. . ��

Thanks guys. Love ya' bunches.
Raider is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 12:27 PM
  # 9 (permalink)  
Member
 
SoberLeigh's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2014
Location: East Coast USA
Posts: 120,859
Raider - 73 days; beautiful. The cravings do get milder and milder and, eventually, they become barely perceptible. Good going, Raider.
SoberLeigh is online now  
Old 04-17-2014, 12:42 PM
  # 10 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2014
Posts: 476
Im happy for the OP, I am day 59 and struggling with boredom. Sleeping a little better, but not much....... average about 6 hours of sleep a night.

Breaking up with alcohol seems to take a lot of time judging from what a lot of other posters on here describe, I have read a few posts about being sober for 1+ years and they STILL have this or that symptom.

i guess the only thing you can do to cope with the boredom is to keep moving forward, im guessing at some point the brain will decide to go back to normal and then the boredom will dissipate
grubby is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 12:46 PM
  # 11 (permalink)  
That bell or bike person
 
mecanix's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: london
Posts: 4,978
I just remind myself of all the bad drinking caused me and those shadows are chased away . Keep humble , keep thankful .

m
mecanix is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 12:50 PM
  # 12 (permalink)  
Member
 
huntingtontx's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2013
Posts: 1,649
Way to go Raider, 73 days is AWESOME! You are doing great. I am so glad to see your up beat posts. I really don't have much to add. Sending you hugs.
huntingtontx is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 12:51 PM
  # 13 (permalink)  
bona fido dog-lover
 
least's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: SF Bay area, CA
Posts: 99,760
Congrats on 73 days sober!
least is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 12:53 PM
  # 14 (permalink)  
Member
 
bloss's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: CA
Posts: 3,360
Keep going, 73 days and onward...
bloss is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 01:29 PM
  # 15 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Raider's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: North salt lake
Posts: 3,325
Grubby - why bored??
Raider is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 01:34 PM
  # 16 (permalink)  
Member
 
iSPAZ's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: FtW, Tx
Posts: 198
Raiser Rocks!!!!!!
iSPAZ is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 01:52 PM
  # 17 (permalink)  
Administrator
 
Anna's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: Dancing in the Light
Posts: 61,476
Raider, congratulations on 73 days sober, and for being a good mommy to Fuzz.

You are beginning to find new and healthy ways to get through the stressful times.
Anna is online now  
Old 04-17-2014, 02:02 PM
  # 18 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2014
Posts: 476
Originally Posted by Raider
Grubby - why bored??
Dunno man, being sober its just........ its just not the same, i can feel it....... lots of activities just dont seem as fun as when i did them buzzed or drunk. I definitely notice that time has really slowed to a crawl since i put down the bottle. WHen i was drinking it seemed like time was a blur and it just flew by.

I think part of it is being inside too much and too much time looking at a computer screen, but alas, i just dont know too many people in the "real world" so its tough to find things to do.
grubby is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 02:40 PM
  # 19 (permalink)  
Member
 
Straightshoot's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2013
Location: Homestead Florida
Posts: 297
You go woman! 73 whoppie!!!
Straightshoot is offline  
Old 04-17-2014, 03:04 PM
  # 20 (permalink)  
Realising my life
 
HeadLump's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: Dorset, England
Posts: 3,656
73 days, Raider? That must be worth a twerk or two!
HeadLump is offline  

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 08:08 PM.