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Old 03-16-2014, 08:31 AM
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court tomorrow

I am doing great in recovery, but I'm super anxious today. I have a final DWI court date for 1 of my charges. Shot at jail time. Most likely not but there is a chance. I have another date next month for my second DWI in another county which most likely result in jail time. 37 days sober and going strong but I'm starting to get a little anxious
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Old 03-16-2014, 08:55 AM
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Just stay sober and keep doing the right thing. You can get thru this sober and come out stronger for it.
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Old 03-16-2014, 08:58 AM
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I had some contact with the DUI legal system, and it was my impression that if you are successful at achieving sobriety the judge will be lenient.
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Old 03-16-2014, 09:47 AM
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I had some contact with the DUI legal system, and it was my impression that if you are successful at achieving sobriety the judge will be lenient.
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Will also probably depend on the circumstances of your arrests. Accident v. pulled over for weaving v. checkpoint bust etc.
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Old 03-16-2014, 10:03 AM
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Congratulations on 37 days sober, Forghetti! Just think of this court date as another step in your recovery. It will help clean up the past and allow you to move forward with your new sober life. I hope you don't end up with jail time and that the judge recognizes your effort to change your life.

Make sure to bring any evidence of your sobriety with you to court. If you have attended AA meetings and have signed paperwork or could possibly get a Dr's note to back you up, it may help your case.

Good Luck!
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Old 03-16-2014, 10:10 AM
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Hi Forghetti
Thanks for sharing
I am 37 days too and feeling more anxious lately - I just keep telling myself to ride it out and stay sober. Hang in there and I hope for the best for your outcomes!
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Old 03-16-2014, 01:05 PM
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Thanks guys. I think tomorrow is being treated like a first DWI sentencing. My other pending DWI is concerning me more. I'm sure I'm making it worse in my head, and I know I can't do wnything about it to control other than staying sober.
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Old 03-16-2014, 01:16 PM
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Did you blow each time or refuse?
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Old 03-16-2014, 01:24 PM
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I put a number on the board. Both were aggravating factors too, unfortunately for me.
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Old 03-16-2014, 01:32 PM
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Tomorrow, Make sure to wear your 38 days and be proud!

What's done was done and what happens happens. But your 37 days are yours, no one can take it from you.

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Old 03-16-2014, 01:47 PM
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Well done and best of luck xxxx
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Old 03-16-2014, 01:56 PM
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I will be thinking of you all day tomorrow, and sending you positive thoughts!
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Old 03-16-2014, 01:58 PM
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Awww thanks, Natalie! Very sweet of you. I'll take all thoughts n prayers for tomorrow.
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Old 03-16-2014, 02:33 PM
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Forghetti

Congratulations on 37 days.

Good luck tomorrow. Court is nerve-wracking, even when you know it's going to be a relatively simple visit.

Sending prayers your way, especially for some sort of extended rehab arrangement in lieu of serving time for the 2nd DUI. Hang in there. Stay strong.
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Old 03-16-2014, 02:34 PM
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Good luck Forghetti, will be thinking of you. I have seen from your posts that you have been working really hard on your sobriety and are very supportive of others. Best wishes x
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Awww thanks, Natalie! Very sweet of you. I'll take all thoughts n prayers for tomorrow.
Yeah take mine too xxxx
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Old 03-16-2014, 02:41 PM
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This response is what makes me glad to be sober. I couldn't have appreciated this support while drinking, or wouldn't. The gesture of thoughts sent my way is so powerful! I'm glad I can now recognize and take joy. Strangers wishing me well.......it's almost overwhelming, and beautiful. Thank u all
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Old 03-16-2014, 03:24 PM
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:36 PM
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Congratulations on 37 days Forghetti. You're doing an awesome job.

I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.
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Add me to the list of those who'll be thinking of you. I had two dui's as well. Being remorseful & showing I intended to stay sober really helped. Please post what happens - we care.
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