Ended with a bang....
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Ended with a bang....
Well I'm done. Came home and AH went psycho, pushed me and called me a fat *****. Kids heard it all, older daughter told me she was scared he was going to hit her. I always suspected it would end horrible like this but my kids are divestated esp older DD. I told him to get his **** and get out and not come back if he does will call police, I have a lot of it on video and both DD's and DD's friend saw it all. Please pray for us.
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I'm so sorry Hopeful. Praying for you three and sending big, big hugs. I'm glad that you were able to get it on video though. If nothing else, you should be able to rest assured that your custody issues with him will be much easier with that in your back pocket.
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Agree with all. Get the police involved. Now. It is time to protect yourself and your children and get an official record of this incident. This may just be an answer to your prayers regarding holding the cards in a custody fight. I know that doesn't give you any comfort going through it right now, but how many times have ALL of us wished differently in hind site?
So sorry you are going through this. ((((hugs)).
So sorry you are going through this. ((((hugs)).
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Oh Hopeful, I'm sorry it had to happen like this, especially with your kids witnessing it all. Poor babies! Glad you got it on video, but I agree with the others, maybe a police report is in order to document the incident in the interest of future custody issues. Eeesh!
It sounds like you've been hemming and hawing about leaving anyway, looks like this is your sign.
Hope you and the kids are safe tonight. Hugs!
It sounds like you've been hemming and hawing about leaving anyway, looks like this is your sign.
Hope you and the kids are safe tonight. Hugs!
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A friend once told me, self esteem comes from doing esteem-able acts. No man should ever put his hands on a woman!! No woman should ever be called those names!! I hope you find your strength and do what you would advise a friend to do.
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Hopeful, so sorry you are going through this, it sounds terrifying. Terrible your kids had to witness it. It's very very smart of you to have recorded it. I agree with the others, file a police report. Praying for you and your children.
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Thank you all. He is gone my mom is here w me. Going to use this to try and get him to sign off on everything i want, if not i file for exparte which will put him in jail. Hes on probation til Apr 1 so thats on my side. I appreciate you all so much. Xxx
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I am so very sorry that you had to experience that - and even worse, that your children were scared. I'm glad you got video documentation and that you now have an "Ace in the Hole" for future dealings. That has to be somewhat of a "silver lining" in all of this awfulness....
Gentle Hugs and Mighty Prayers for you and your family...
Gentle Hugs and Mighty Prayers for you and your family...
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I'm so sorry that you and your family are going through this. Please know that we are all here for you and sending lots of prayers your way. We picture in our heads all the different type of scenarios that can occur with addiction, but when something like this actually happens, it is still devastating. Sending you and your kids a big hug.
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