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Old 03-08-2014, 12:05 AM
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I seriously can't do this anymore. Emotionally or physically. I'm having symptoms of what I think is Angina... I need to quit. I can't check myself into rehab because I'm the sole caregiver for my Dad who is going on 88 and has dementia. I want to quit. I'm serious and I'm determined.

Is anyone willing to maybe be there for me for a few days so I can get a good grip on what I need to do?

I'm so dog tired.....just beat......

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Old 03-08-2014, 12:09 AM
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Hi Steph
there's a lot of support here 24/7

why can't you go see your Dr at least?

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Old 03-08-2014, 12:10 AM
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Welcome!

You said you can't check into rehab, have you talked with a doctor at all?
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Old 03-08-2014, 12:13 AM
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OBXdreamin, Can't do this anymore, FANTASTIC, rootin for ya.
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Old 03-08-2014, 12:18 AM
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I would really encourage you to see a doctor as Dee suggested. This is very important you need to get this checked.

I hear you I was also mentally and physically exhausted by the end of my drinking.

Post here are much as you need to someone is always around and can offer support.

You don't have to do this alone.
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Old 03-08-2014, 12:53 AM
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Please do see your doctor for help in quitting. They can help you get safely thru withdrawals. In the meantime you can come here for support.
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Old 03-08-2014, 01:13 AM
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There is always help available. Rehab may not be suitable at this time but talking openly with your doctor certainly is. Come here for support whenever needed. You'll find tons of useful info on here and it's extremely helpful to just spend a while reading other peoples stories.
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Old 03-08-2014, 01:21 AM
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Seeing your doctor for a consult would be a good idea, OBXdreamin. You can't take care of your dad unless you take care of yourself.
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Old 03-08-2014, 03:44 AM
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Old 03-08-2014, 03:57 AM
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Steph, you need to take care of YOU first, even if you have to find someone to help with your old man. Please take any hint of chest pain seriously and see a doctor immediately. Believe me, I've been there done that... angina, stents, heart bypass. The value of seeing a doc is that apart from having potentially life-saving treatment if you need it, you may have the converse scenario of being told your heart is absolutely fine, in which case you won't have the worry of thinking something's wrong.
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Old 03-08-2014, 04:18 AM
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hey steph.... a doctor, yes. Do that.

and also, here is your answer;

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welcome. Keep on posting. You can get off this wicked ride.

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