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03-03-2014, 07:44 PM

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ZiggyB

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He's dead :(

Hi everyone!

I haven't been on SR in a really long time, I've been busy, moving on with my life...

Found out today through a mutual acquaintance that axbf died of a gastric hemorrhage. I haven't talked to him much since we broke up but I don't believe he ever stopped drinking. He was only 49, such a young age to die.

I can hardly believe it, I don't know what to feel. He treated me quite badly in the end but I'm sad for his family and sad for this stupid disease that claims the lives of so many.

-zig

03-03-2014, 07:45 PM

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Dee74

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I'm sorry for your loss.

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03-03-2014, 07:59 PM

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carmen220

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Terrible news. I'm so sorry.

03-03-2014, 08:03 PM

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NotTheMama

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So sorry for your loss!

03-03-2014, 08:04 PM

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BrokenInPieces

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I am so very sorry for your loss.

03-03-2014, 08:06 PM

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iSPAZ

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So sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself in this time of grief. Prayers!

03-03-2014, 08:12 PM

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FeelingGreat

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It's such a waste isn't it Ziggy? Like slow suicide. Look after yourself.

03-03-2014, 08:14 PM

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Stung

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I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers your way.

03-03-2014, 08:25 PM

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GotGrace

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So very sad. Please take care.

03-03-2014, 08:32 PM

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artgrl

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So sorry for your loss. Sending you love during this time of grief.

03-03-2014, 08:45 PM

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hopeful4

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Im so sorry

03-03-2014, 09:11 PM

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allforcnm

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Im so sorry, what a terrible loss.

03-03-2014, 09:25 PM

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FlippedRHalo

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I'm so sorry. That's my biggest fear come true.

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Im so sorry, what a terrible loss.

03-03-2014, 10:12 PM

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Shadydeal

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I am sorry! Always one of my fears w my XABF. Take care of yourself.

03-03-2014, 10:31 PM

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PippiLngstockng

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Hi Ziggy, I read through your last two posts. Last time you mentioned seeing him, he was going into a liquor store?

It's so sad. We see the alcoholic as the one suffering, but they are also numbing. So they pass the pain on to their sober loved ones.

I's so sorry, Ziggy. It is good that you've moved forward in your life. I hope you've been doing well. Take extra good care of yourself.

xoxoxo

03-03-2014, 10:34 PM

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Mags1

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Hi ziggurat, so so for your loss, this disease is terrible and tragic. Thinking of you x

03-03-2014, 10:59 PM

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LadyinBC

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I am so very sorry to here this. Hugs to you.

03-03-2014, 11:02 PM

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SnoozyQ

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I'm so sorry Ziggy . Even tho he drank , this news always comes as a shock xx

Alcohol is a mongrel disease ...thank god for those of us here who have got out before it killed us .

03-03-2014, 11:13 PM

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theuncertainty

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Such sad news. I'm so sorry, Ziggy.

03-04-2014, 12:15 AM

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Seren

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Hello ZiggyB,

I'm just so very sorry to hear about your loss...what a tragedy for someone to die so young. I really hate alcoholism...

Prayers to his family and to you. Please take good care!