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Old 02-27-2014, 07:34 PM
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First post here.

Glad to have finally worked up the courage to admit my problems and join this group.

I am 60 days sober today. My doctor got me through the first physical hurdles now I have to do the rest.

I can only say that I have no intention of ever drinking again, and I think that with a little help I can maybe follow through this time.

I have finally figured out that I cannot ever take that "just one drink".

For me "One is too much".
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Old 02-27-2014, 07:43 PM
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Welcome to SR, OneIsTooMuch! You'll find great support for staying sober and a wonderful community here!
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Old 02-27-2014, 08:14 PM
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Welcome One!
My favorite line from that old movie The Lost Weekend. One's too many and a thousands not enough. That and when he begs the bartender to let him have his vicious little circles when the bartender tries to wipe the bar.

60 days is AWESOME! And yes, I agree one is too many for me too.
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Old 02-27-2014, 08:22 PM
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Welcome, One!

It sounds like you've got a great attitude and you are off to a great start. Glad you are here!
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Welcome! You have an excellent start-60 days is great! It's easier to have none than one.
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Old 02-28-2014, 12:39 AM
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Old 02-28-2014, 12:45 AM
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Welcome to the SR family. Congrats on 60 days sober! That's a great start. You can count on us for support along the way.
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Old 02-28-2014, 04:10 AM
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Thank you all for the welcome.

Yes, 60 days "feels" awesome to me too! That is by far my longest dry stretch in over thirty years. Each day dry gives me a little more hope.

That little voice in my head is still there of course. I suppose he and I will be having "that" conversation for the rest of my life.
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Old 02-28-2014, 05:53 AM
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One? One drink? Who of us drinks just ONE????? It's actually easier to just have none. So glad you're with us!
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Old 02-28-2014, 06:52 AM
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Yes, of course, that is the problem! I can't stop with just one -- so even one is too much because it leads inevitably to the bottom of the bottle.

Sounds simple, right? Took me three decades to figure it out. Slow learner, I guess.;-)
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Old 02-28-2014, 07:05 AM
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Old 02-28-2014, 07:07 AM
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Old 02-28-2014, 07:08 AM
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One is too much indeed!
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Old 02-28-2014, 07:30 AM
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Welcome and congratulations on 30 days. That's a huge accomplishment! I too can't have one drink because one is never enough ... an ocean wouldn't be enough.

Keep posting. This place is great.
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Congratulations on a great start. Welcome to SR. So glad you have joined us.
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Old 03-08-2014, 08:22 PM
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68 days now.

Today was the First time I went out for lunch to a place that also serves alcohol since quitting. Family thing, had to go. No cravings at all, kind of surprised! And pleased!

I know it won't always be that easy, but hey, small steps!
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Old 03-08-2014, 08:39 PM
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Welcome Oneistoomuch - think we can all sympathize with the can't stop at one theory on here! You've come to a good place here.
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Old 03-08-2014, 08:40 PM
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Old 03-08-2014, 09:19 PM
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A belated Hello. It does get easier. Cravings disappear. Still have to deal with myself though- easier said than done
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