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Old 02-24-2014, 08:01 PM
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New member.... finally joined

I have been reading this forum for several weeks. I finally decided to join.

I am married to a man that has multiple addictions... alcohol is just one of them. I have detached. He sucks the life out of me. Lies, manipulation, emotional and verbally abusive.

I have been doing the steps on my own. I would go to al anon meetings but live in a rural area... no meetings nearby. My step parent did al anon many years ago so they are walking me through the first steps and I am reading everything online that I can get my hands on. Heading to a bookstore this week to buy some of the good books I have heard about.

I have journalled step 1 and 2 and started journalling step 3.

Really enjoy that i read on this forum. Excited to learn all that I can so that I can stop being co-dependent and be healthy. My brain feels so much more clear and less craziness in my life.
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Old 02-24-2014, 08:15 PM
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I am glad that you are making it about you; that is who is really important here...you. I do not know much about Al Anon but there is a forum here for friends and family of alcoholics. I hope that you continue to make yourself happy and strive toward a healthy future. Welcome to SR craftylady!
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Old 02-24-2014, 10:15 PM
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welcome!

you might want to check out the book "Co-Dependent No More".

Good for you working the steps actively!

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Old 02-25-2014, 01:39 AM
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Welcome to the family, craftylady! You've come to a very supportive place. Take a look at our friends and family forums also for additional support.
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Old 02-25-2014, 01:44 AM
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Welcome. I hope he finds his way, and you can find peace
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Old 02-25-2014, 03:40 AM
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Welcome Craftylady xxxxx
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