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Old 02-16-2014, 10:28 AM
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So maybe...

I just don't have a lot of patience for people who would rather pass out drunk than live life, who do crazy stuff that ends up in the news, who talk nonsense.

Honestly if my RABF weren't in recovery and working a program, I think I would leave.
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Choublak---just to be clear---has your boyfriend done that?

No one is obligated to stay with anyone just because they are in a program. Personal relationships between adults are voluntary choices that we make.

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Was he in recovery before you started dating?
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Was he in recovery before you started dating?
No.

His alcoholism hadn't developed/progressed when I first met him. His friends drank more than he did.
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Originally Posted by dandylion View Post
Choublak---just to be clear---has your boyfriend done that?

No one is obligated to stay with anyone just because they are in a program. Personal relationships between adults are voluntary choices that we make.

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Not recently.

I'm just thinking about myself and why I'm so critical of others.
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I just don't have a lot of patience for people who would rather pass out drunk than live life, who do crazy stuff that ends up in the news, who talk nonsense.

Honestly if my RABF weren't in recovery and working a program, I think I would leave.
GOOD. FOR. YOU.

I like you.
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