I'm leaving
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Benedict
It's completely up to you, but I just wanted to say that I read over many of your posts and you remind me of me. By all means, have a look at some of my posts from a couple of years back......
Unfortunately, whilst you are hammered it is harder for your brain to see the reasonableness that is coming from folks at SR in their posts to you. I know, having been there in the past.
So, if I were you and if you were asking me, my plan would be to finish up drinking tonight and come back to SR tomorrow, with a lovely hot cup of tea as your sidekick.
It's completely up to you, but I just wanted to say that I read over many of your posts and you remind me of me. By all means, have a look at some of my posts from a couple of years back......
Unfortunately, whilst you are hammered it is harder for your brain to see the reasonableness that is coming from folks at SR in their posts to you. I know, having been there in the past.
So, if I were you and if you were asking me, my plan would be to finish up drinking tonight and come back to SR tomorrow, with a lovely hot cup of tea as your sidekick.
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Benedict I was wondering what you were referring to about your presence being detrimental so I read through your last few posts on other threads. Your presence is not detrimental at all, quite a number of SR members have said the same.
All of us have been in the position where we've been drinking and misunderstood what other people were saying so there is nothing to be embarrassed about because we've all been in the same position.
The best thing you can do is drink some water, have a sleep and then come back and join us again.
All of us have been in the position where we've been drinking and misunderstood what other people were saying so there is nothing to be embarrassed about because we've all been in the same position.
The best thing you can do is drink some water, have a sleep and then come back and join us again.
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It's really sweet that you would be concerned benedict but you are the priority here as someone who is struggling with sobriety. Others who find it difficult to read have the option not to read it You will also find that reading your struggles actually helps some of us stay sober. So stick around! x
You will also find that reading your struggles actually helps some of us stay sober. So stick around! x
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HEY Benedict, no you are not going anywhere. I am a chronic relapser and it would be selfish of you to leave me relapsing alone. Throwing the ******** flag down NOW. Now get back on here and help me and others. Drunk or not, this A needs to hear from you. Don't let me down!!!
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Benedict... I'm really hoping you come back tomorrow after you sober up. Don't worry about anything you wrote in this thread or earlier ones today. You most likely won't even remember much if it. Your original plan earlier today was for tomorrow to be day 1, stick to that. It will make a lot more sense tomorrow.
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Benedict - you are not alone and by all means no detriment here. We've been where you are and welcome you here with open arms and no judgement. It takes a village...and like it or not you are a part of our little village and we want you here, relapsing or not.
Please consider joining us again once you check back in with sober eyes and a clear head. You can see that many people are here for you!!
Please consider joining us again once you check back in with sober eyes and a clear head. You can see that many people are here for you!!
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