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Old 02-05-2014, 07:13 AM
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Am I co-dependent on SR?

I am not sure co-dependent is the right expression but I find myself worrying about people who typically post here when I don't see any recent posts from them. I just hope they are ok and otherwise busy.
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Old 02-05-2014, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by 2bhappier View Post
I am not sure co-dependent is the right expression but I find myself worrying about people who typically post here when I don't see any recent posts from them. I just hope they are ok and otherwise busy.
I'm the same xx
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Old 02-05-2014, 01:21 PM
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I think there is a very definite line between worrying about others and codependency.

I too worry when I have not heard from a regular on SR. However, my life does not change because of it. I worry and pray for others, I think that is a good quality.

The day I stop caring about others means I am no longer me. I don't want that to happen!
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Old 02-05-2014, 02:05 PM
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I think it's natural to form friendships here and to worry when people disappear.

I think we all know when we cross that line and worry turns to something less healthy tho.

One of my golden rules is I didn’t cause someone else’s behavior. Others are responsible for their behavior, and I'm only responsible for mine.

They have their journeys and I have mine.

I hope all those who have disappeared are doing well, or will return sometime

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