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Old 01-23-2014, 01:35 PM
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no more bars, no more bottles, no more regretful mornings

I gave up my four days last night. It was stupid and useless and all I have to show for it today is a headache and no motivation to leave the couch.

I'm gonna be 30 in June and I want to be sober for it.

I've never posted in a forum like this, but I think I'm going to really enjoy it. None of my friends understand why I need to be sober. I desperately need support from like-minded people and I feel like this is the right place. The "we're all in this together" attitude really helps me and eases my anxieties about being sober.

I don't know a lot about sobriety and I don't have any grand wisdom to share, but I'm here to stay inspired and hopefully inspire others. I want to make some friends so feel free to message me.

Here's to day one!
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Old 01-23-2014, 01:43 PM
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this is a great place to start....

and welcome!

and congratulations on taking this step.

You don't have to stay stuck in the cycle.
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Old 01-23-2014, 01:46 PM
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Welcome to SR There is so much support here and it really is easier to quit among people who share your experiences.

Make yourself at home
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Welcome aboard, thecultsection

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Welcome, the cultsection and congrats on your decision to get sober
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hello cultsection (love the name by the way). glad you found us!
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Hey there, cultsection! Welcome to SR.
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Old 01-23-2014, 05:50 PM
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I remember feeling relief when I joined here to know so many people understood how I was feeling.

I'm glad you found us and joined the family.
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I'm on day 4 today. It's been a good/confusing/rough couple of days. Congratulations on Day 1. Good luck to you!
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Old 01-23-2014, 06:43 PM
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Thanks a lot for the support, folks! I'm visiting a friend in the city tomorrow and I know that he'll want to drink. It'll be challenging to not drink with him, but I'm feeling focused on my goals.

I can have fun without alcohol. I'm going to eat a ton of pizza and drink coffee (haven't had it in four years, but I think today is a good day to bring it back into my life). If it's not too cold I might even go for a run (well... let's not get too out of hand).

My friend will still be my friend, even when I'm sober.

Thanks again

ALSO: I just found out tonight that my tattoo artist is five years sober. I mentioned my goals to him and he told me about his sobriety. It made me feel very empowered.
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Old 01-23-2014, 06:58 PM
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Very glad to meet you cultsection. I do think it'll help you to be here where everyone understands. I had felt all alone until I joined SR. Have a fun time tomorrow. There is life after alcohol.
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Welcome to the forum, I am on day 19....one day at a time as they say.....Dont beat yourself up, just get back on the horse and start again.
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Welcome, Cultsection. Good to have you aboard. I like what Hevyn said, "There is life after alcohol." Simple. Profound. Deeply true.
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Old 01-23-2014, 08:57 PM
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Welcome to SR! I really admire folks like you, who are smart enough to tackle this head-on at a relatively young age. It's so easy to just let it slide for years and years... You should be really proud of yourself. I know it's a big change, and will be particularly incomprehensible to a lot of folks in your peer group, but you are going to be incredibly glad you did this. In fact, at some point down the road you might find yourself on SR, feeling a little envious of the newcomer who's decided to quit at the tender age of 22, lol..
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