Notices

Sobriety Date

Thread Tools
 
Old 01-05-2014, 07:56 AM
  # 1 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Tang's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Midwest
Posts: 1,450
Sobriety Date

I Know this has been debated on these boards and other places, but I'm curious everyone's opinions. Do you consider your sobriety date the day/time you last drank or 24 hours after that last drink? I've found a lot of sobriety calculators ask for the date/time you had your last drink and count up from there. This is obviously a bit trivial, but it's bothering me . Thanks.
Tang is offline  
Old 01-05-2014, 07:59 AM
  # 2 (permalink)  
Member
 
Twinings's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: uk
Posts: 382
I count the day I wake up and don't drink, so 1 sleep after my last.
e.g My sobriety date is 1/12/13 and my last drink was on 30/11/13

I'm not focusing on number of days this time tho.
Twinings is offline  
Old 01-05-2014, 08:03 AM
  # 3 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: C.C. Ma.
Posts: 3,697
I would consider it the first non drinking day. In the long run it's measured one day at a time. For me I in a reflex only remember the year............sometimes.

BE WELL
IOAA2 is offline  
Old 01-05-2014, 08:04 AM
  # 4 (permalink)  
Member
 
safe2breathe's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2014
Location: South Texas
Posts: 211
i consider my sobriety date the day i made the commitment and followed through -- ii imagine it could be different for anyone - but to me it seems like -- if you were sitting in a bar and said "to hell with this - i cant do it anymore " and left right there - id say that was your sobriety date -- if you woke up one morning hungover/half drunk ,naked with dog shampoo in the living room with the stove on and said and did the same thing - id say that was it ...

in short - if you had made the decision and did not drink or use after that - then i think you are free to decide what is most fitting for your "actual date" ... who is anyone else to tell you otherwise ....
safe2breathe is offline  
Old 01-05-2014, 12:33 PM
  # 5 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Gulf Coast, Florida USA
Posts: 5,731
I went with 1st day non drinking and using and I only count total days both clean and sober.

Alot of people have 2 dates. One for booze and one for drugs. That doesn't really suit me and I think if you are doing one or the other since you quit the one you have not been clean.

For example I know someone who has been off alcohol for 3 years but used cocaine till they quit a yr later but they go with the 1st date.

For me that would not be honest to myself and myself alone but I guess some don't care. Not my recovery. I run an honest program.
deeker is offline  
Old 01-05-2014, 12:42 PM
  # 6 (permalink)  
Member
 
soberhawk's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: Scandinavia
Posts: 1,344
I have used the same method as Deeker, whole days.

But I have two dates though – smoking is a separate date.

I still drink tea and coffee – and I am keeping those two stimulants.

I did not pay that much attention to the dates in the beginning – but I am looking forward to that I have been of smokes for 100 days.

The dates to matter to me
soberhawk is offline  
Old 01-05-2014, 12:58 PM
  # 7 (permalink)  
Member
 
stevie88's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Dudley,Uk
Posts: 1,704
My last drink was the 6th December 2012 so I class the 7th December as my sobriety date.....Same as my last cigarette was 31st December 2013 but my quit date is 1st January 2014.......It's just how my brain works lol.
stevie88 is offline  
Old 01-05-2014, 01:04 PM
  # 8 (permalink)  
Kaleidoscope eyes
 
KateL's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: London
Posts: 5,243
When I finally got sober, I think I felt I had cracked it at last, so lost count after about the first week
KateL is offline  
Old 01-05-2014, 01:10 PM
  # 9 (permalink)  
2Cor5:17
 
1newcreation's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Between Doctor's opinion & pg 164
Posts: 4,187
Was confused bout same thing while ago but was told by old timer that's its following day when you're sober; now seems to be agreed upon by everyone here
1newcreation is offline  
Old 01-05-2014, 01:19 PM
  # 10 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Midwest
Posts: 553
I count my sobriety date as the first day after midnight that I don't have a drink.
Inca is offline  
Old 01-05-2014, 02:23 PM
  # 11 (permalink)  
Guest
 
Join Date: Dec 2012
Posts: 943
I count it as the first day that I am physically sober. I had my last drink at about 3am on the 2nd January, slept and when I woke up I was still drunk and sobered up during that day so Im counting day 1 as the 3rd January.
Deleteda is offline  
Old 01-05-2014, 02:30 PM
  # 12 (permalink)  
Member
 
Notimetoloose's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2013
Location: OZ
Posts: 2,055
Ist day after waking up from the last drink. 10/11/13 last year..!!YEE HAW!!
Notimetoloose is offline  
Old 01-05-2014, 02:36 PM
  # 13 (permalink)  
~sb
 
sugarbear1's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: MD
Posts: 15,967
I finished at 2 am on the date I chose as my sobriety date.

to each his own.....
sugarbear1 is offline  
Old 01-05-2014, 02:40 PM
  # 14 (permalink)  
Member
 
PurpleKnight's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Ireland
Posts: 25,826
My last drink was on a Friday night, but it was 2/3am before blacking out, the following day nursing a hangover, I made the decision to be Sober.

That Saturday I consider my Sobriety date, regardless of drinking in the early hours of the morning, the previous night. I had gone to bed and woken up in what I considered a new day, that day was my first Sober day!!
PurpleKnight is offline  

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 02:56 PM.