lesa

Even with grandkids..I want to tell my daughter rehab oor we won't help her anymore ..is that wrong..

lesa

Can someoone please help with this..

atalose

We can't threaten them clean, it doesn't work that way.

If the father of the kids is also an addict then fight for custody of your grand kids.

Txhelp

If you are willing to set those boundaries and stick to them.....then do.

There is not a thing wrong with allowing people to do the things that they should be doing as an adult. If you are doing more than your share, on a regular basis, it's not helping but enabling.

So sorry that you are having to make these decisions while your innocent grandchildren stand by. What are there ages? Is there father involved?

lesa

Two and six and seven and nine are kids ages

Raider

Sad story. I'm sorry.

cleaninLI

Can you fight for custody of your grandchildren?

lesa

No he doing what he needs t

Txhelp

Wow...so many children. Hopefully, you can still be apart of their lives regardless if their mother is involved.

Ann

Hi Lesa, it's good to see you again.

It's okay to say you will not give her money anymore until she gets clean. I know myself when I gave money to my son...no matter what his request was...it always went to drugs. Even when I paid it, like paying his rent or groceries, that just left his own money free for drugs.

Prayers out for your grandbabies, they are the innocents here.

How are you doing with all this?

Hugs