Thoughtful2

I love him very much but can't be with him even though we are still together
He talked to me the other day and I had the feeling he was getting help
He said things like stay where you are I will come to you when I am ready get well and I will work things out ( we are kind distance and I have been unwell and delayed my return) and am thinking if staying to be near my parents as I love them and want to be near them when they are old.
My bf said if that is what I want then he will come to be
He sounded different I thought he was getting help
But now he is texting me how he wants me there can't live without me misses me wants me with him text after text
I am feeling stressed and desperately sad I am upset as I love him so but feel like he is pressuring me
I love him he says he loves me and there is no one else for him
We get along so well and the last time I was there he seemed to ease up in the drinking
It also seems like he he is scared to leave his home. He does not have much money and is unemployed but u don't judge people that way
Please I am lying here weary crying and I have a heart condition and am beginning yo feel ill and sad thank you for your help xxx

flutter

Turn off your phone for a good while.. or block the number, even temporarily.

I'm sorry you're going through this. What support do you have to take care of YOU?

MIRecovery

Tell him when he has been.sober for a year you will see where things stand and then block the number

Luckyv2

You could change your number than the only way to contact him would lay in your hands. Just a thought.