Here we are again.. sleeping beauty
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Here we are again.. sleeping beauty
So my "recovering" AH is yet again.. still sleeping in bed at 1:31 pm. For someone who is "clean and sober" and "working a recovery program" seems awful like a bunch of BS. I hope he atrophies and can't move his BIG smelly &%#, I am wishing bed sores and a freaking toothbrush on him. He is stinking up my bedroom. ARGH.
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I am sorry to hear that, can you close the door and take some special time just for you? I hope he "wakes up" to recovery soon but in the meantime I hope you take very special care of yourself...you're worth it.
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Originally Posted by dane5679 
So my "recovering" AH is yet again.. still sleeping in bed at 1:31 pm. For someone who is "clean and sober" and "working a recovery program" seems awful like a bunch of BS. I hope he atrophies and can't move his BIG smelly &%#, I am wishing bed sores and a freaking toothbrush on him. He is stinking up my bedroom. ARGH.
Have you considered all your options in terms of dealing with this?
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Dane, I'm so sorry for what you're going through. It sounds from your posts like this has been going on for years. Do you want to make a change? There are a lot of catchy sayings about this: The ride stops as soon as you get off. Let go or be dragged. Nothing changes until something changes. You can be the change. You get the idea! Wishing you a peaceful weekend! Hugs
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IDK about her, but sometimes when you're in the position she is, you're just too overwhelmed to do anything about it. Everything seems like such a big production. 
Right now, that's where I am. Idk where to start, so I just stay sober & do nothing else. It's a rough spot to be in, but at least I have my sobriety to hold onto.
Right now, that's where I am. Idk where to start, so I just stay sober & do nothing else. It's a rough spot to be in, but at least I have my sobriety to hold onto.
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Sorry for what you are going through, Dane. I know how infuriating it is. My son did the same thing and I will tell you this, they do NOT like to be sprayed down with Febreeze. Seriously though, take care of you and when you are ready, you will do what is best for you (and him) in the long run. Thoughts and prayers for you from another frustrated mother. (((big hugs as well)))
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