Ibgonefishin

Where do I go from here? I now know - I can not do this alone.

Dee74

Joining here is a great start Ibgone

are you a drinker?

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Leana

This is a good place to start. AA, counseling, & treatment are all a great next step.

Ibgonefishin

Yes I am a drinker.

Ibgonefishin

Thank you both for responding.

Dee74

Ok..well...there's a lot of us here Ibgone...you're definitelty not alone

read around post as much as you like - if you find a method you like feel free to ask any questions

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Leana

You're not alone, I've been there done that. It was very hard for me to take that first step but you've already done that...asking for help. Are you a closet drinker? Or do your friends and family know you have a problem?

Ibgonefishin

Yes. I guess it would be the next step.

Anna

Welcome!

Try to not be overwhelmed. We do understand how hard this is, and it's great that you've taken the first step.

Ibgonefishin

Both. They suspected, but they do know now.

Ibgonefishin

I don't think I even new for sure. Well, I guess did, but did want to admit it to myself or anyone else.

Ibgonefishin

I kept telling myself I could control it. I wanted to be able to, but I realize now how wrong I was. I tell myself only one or two - This created a problem for me because most of the time that was true. The times I don't. - I don't stop.

Leana

Yup! I understand completely! Believe me I do. The last thing in the world I wanted to be known as was an alcoholic but I was. So I really do understand. Your doing great! Keep posting.

ZeldaFan

I can definitely relate. I used to think I had everything under control and nobody knew about my secret nightly drinking. By the time I quit, everyone knew but only a few had the courage to confront me about it. I'm glad they did as it was the push I needed to take a long, hard look at myself.

Take it day-by-day and let some sober time collect up. With each day it starts to get easier as you learn new ways to pass the time and enjoy yourself. Stay close to this great site and seek out support groups like AA, read up on ways to control your addictive voice and seek out counseling if needed. Again, just know this is a day-by-day struggle that does get better with time. You are among friends who understand here!

wiscsober

Hevyn

Welcome to a great place Ibgone. We're so glad you joined us. You are never alone with your struggles - you have us, & we all understand.

Ibgonefishin

Thank you all for the support and encouraging words. It has now been 58 hrs and 24 minutes.

wiscsober

Fantastic...keep posting and reading.

Bird800

Welcome Ibgone! You're doing great.

malcolmsloan

Welcome ibgone, I'm new here too--4 days. This site and the support it provides has made all the difference for me so far. I hope it does for you too. Keep it up!