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Relapsed
In the interest of being honest, open wnd willing to make changes in my life I have to let you all know that I am a double winner and I relapsed and am now working on one day at a time.
I think you are all awesome and don't want to mislead anyone. It has been difficult for me because I have to work on me and deal with husband at the same time. Trying to find the strength and courage to most probably separate from him.
Thanks. I am feeling rather small at the moment.
I think you are all awesome and don't want to mislead anyone. It has been difficult for me because I have to work on me and deal with husband at the same time. Trying to find the strength and courage to most probably separate from him.
Thanks. I am feeling rather small at the moment.
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In the interest of being honest, open wnd willing to make changes in my life I have to let you all know that I am a double winner and I relapsed and am now working on one day at a time.
I think you are all awesome and don't want to mislead anyone. It has been difficult for me because I have to work on me and deal with husband at the same time. Trying to find the strength and courage to most probably separate from him.
Thanks. I am feeling rather small at the moment.
I think you are all awesome and don't want to mislead anyone. It has been difficult for me because I have to work on me and deal with husband at the same time. Trying to find the strength and courage to most probably separate from him.
Thanks. I am feeling rather small at the moment.
Just checked. Humility is Still on the On The Beam side of the list.
That is of course on the Good Side of things.
I am thinking you are probably right where you should be right now.
Steady as she goes, Mr. Sulu.
Thanks all! I feel so much better that I posted this thread. I am doing better today than I was yesterday. Busy with report card pick up today. I am bragging because my son got all As. Daughters card is later today but as she is in kindergarten I won't see letter grades for her.
It has been a struggle with son as he is ad/hd which I earlier posted. He is coming along. Now I just have to come along with my own self.
It has been a struggle with son as he is ad/hd which I earlier posted. He is coming along. Now I just have to come along with my own self.
Hi Ruby,
I am a double winner too. I hope you are not beating yourself up. Taking it a day at a time is very important if you are struggling. Also (as a fellow double winner), watch out for your codependency. I know that for me it is a major trigger. It is hard to get and stay sober when our loved ones are still active but as you and I know and others on this board can attest to, it can be done.
The holiday season can be really stressful to families and individuals affected by alcoholism and I am glad that you are reaching out
I hope you will join us in the 24 hours club. It is a supportive thread where we commit not to drink or drug for the next 24 hours. http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...join-us-9.html
That's definitely great advice, and I need to follow it too. I am starting to feel the holiday dread and with me it all starts with my codie insane thinking which eventually could lead me to a drink. For double winners, codie relapse can end up in alkie relapse
I am a double winner too. I hope you are not beating yourself up. Taking it a day at a time is very important if you are struggling. Also (as a fellow double winner), watch out for your codependency. I know that for me it is a major trigger. It is hard to get and stay sober when our loved ones are still active but as you and I know and others on this board can attest to, it can be done.
The holiday season can be really stressful to families and individuals affected by alcoholism and I am glad that you are reaching out
I hope you will join us in the 24 hours club. It is a supportive thread where we commit not to drink or drug for the next 24 hours. http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...join-us-9.html
That's definitely great advice, and I need to follow it too. I am starting to feel the holiday dread and with me it all starts with my codie insane thinking which eventually could lead me to a drink. For double winners, codie relapse can end up in alkie relapse
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