Choosing not to care...
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Choosing not to care...
Today my AH left here at 10:00am with an old army buddy to go to a football game. He said he prefered to go with someone that like sports, I get that I hate sports. His buddy is a drinker too... So, that might have something to do with it. AH hasn't had a drink in 40 days, so we'll see..
But, today, I just don't care. I cooked an amazing stuffed pasta dish, pre-made some snacks for the week, spent some quality time with my daughter, we did her hair and nails, I read, I went shopping... And didn't give my husband another thought. If he gets drunk, so be it... I'm having fun without him.
But, today, I just don't care. I cooked an amazing stuffed pasta dish, pre-made some snacks for the week, spent some quality time with my daughter, we did her hair and nails, I read, I went shopping... And didn't give my husband another thought. If he gets drunk, so be it... I'm having fun without him.
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I actually wrote that post at 4:00pm, but somehow it didn't submit ...
He came home very shortly thereafter, both of them sober, which is great... But I still didn't care. He and his buddy are taking over the great room with more football and burgers, and I'm letting him have some space. I am happy in my office/den with my music and my iPad.
I'm not sure if that is detachment or just giving him space...
He came home very shortly thereafter, both of them sober, which is great... But I still didn't care. He and his buddy are taking over the great room with more football and burgers, and I'm letting him have some space. I am happy in my office/den with my music and my iPad.
I'm not sure if that is detachment or just giving him space...
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