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Old 09-20-2013, 10:34 PM
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Talking Wow... sober sex is awesome.
I can't believe I've forgotten about it for the past 4 years while using opiates. I've never felt this good. Some people were telling me that if I stayed with my boyfriend (we're both on day 19 of quitting heroin cold turkey) having sex would influence us to relapse. But right now I'm thinking of STAYING sober because using just makes everything feel numb. I understand where they were coming from, how the pleasure triggers your brain and it makes you think of being high. But not us, I don't ever want sex to be dull again. Wow I'm so sore today, but it's not from withdrawals. I can live with this


Sorry for being too forward if I was... It's just I'm relearning to live and I get really excited about things I've forgotten about!
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Old 09-21-2013, 01:01 AM
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you go girl! lol
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Old 09-21-2013, 01:08 AM
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I'll have what she is having please...
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Old 09-21-2013, 01:13 AM
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It sure is lioness x
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Old 09-21-2013, 02:50 AM
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I third that. Best sex of my life was whilst I was under the influence of lust only.
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Old 09-21-2013, 02:55 AM
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I guess i need some of that lol

Good job on u both kicking the habit xx
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Old 09-21-2013, 02:59 AM
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Thanks everyone!!
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Old 09-21-2013, 03:15 AM
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I said the same thing! I forgot sex could be so amazing.

Glad you're both getting clean and enjoying each other. Very happy for you both <3
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Old 09-21-2013, 03:31 AM
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how our addiction influences and clouds our minds
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Old 09-21-2013, 06:08 AM
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It's gonna sound weird me saying this but I'm enjoying you enjoying sober sex. Lol. It's one of the many things that's better not using.
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Old 09-21-2013, 06:33 AM
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Wow I'm so sore today, but it's not from withdrawals. I can live with this


old sober guy in Calif is happy for you

keep up the good work

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Old 09-21-2013, 06:36 AM
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No apologies!!! Enjoy!!!
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Old 09-21-2013, 06:38 AM
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Love the post, thanks for the update, just keep in mind a lot of here are married

so don't rub it in
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Old 09-21-2013, 06:47 AM
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Love the post, thanks for the update, just keep in mind a lot of here are married

so don't rub it in
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Old 09-21-2013, 08:28 AM
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I can feel a resentment coming on......
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Old 09-21-2013, 08:29 AM
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Wonderful! Keep on keeping on.
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Old 09-21-2013, 08:33 AM
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My husband and I where just saying the same thing. It only gets better. Better sex that you can even remember!!!
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Old 09-21-2013, 09:13 AM
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Amen!
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Good for you Lioness. We get sober and we can fully enjoy the truly beautiful things in life.
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Old 09-21-2013, 12:52 PM
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Love the post, thanks for the update, just keep in mind a lot of here are married

so don't rub it in
I believe that calls for first a LOL and then a "That's what she said."

*ba dum tiss*

I figured this would be the thread if any.
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