Wanting to drink
Wanting to drink
Almost two weeks sober. Feeling pretty good, but want to drink and smoke a cigarette. Maybe I will just go have coffee and a cigarette. I don't think I can quit drinking and smoking at once, but I don't know. Why do I want to drink after all the bad things I have done while drinking? I cannot quit drinking once I start, and I have no idea what will happen to me. But I am about to walk out the door to go the store for beer and cigarettes. This makes no sense, I worked all day, I am tired, and I just want to chill out with a drink.
Try the fast forward thought before you choose
Try to fast forward form the first drink to the aftermath of a hangover and the feelings of guilt, shame and remorse before you pick up that first drink. Is it really worth it ?
Trying to give up 2 addictions at the same time is tough ! I would say have a smoke and eat chocolate ! Giving up smoking is far easier than drinking, believe me. I managed to stop smoking 5 years ago and have never gone back. Cant say the same about my drinking.
Trying to give up 2 addictions at the same time is tough ! I would say have a smoke and eat chocolate ! Giving up smoking is far easier than drinking, believe me. I managed to stop smoking 5 years ago and have never gone back. Cant say the same about my drinking.
Acheleus - its your mind playing tricks on you. Do you have a sponsor to call? Do you have some cigs without going to the store? Think about the 2 weeks and the work - you don't want to start all over do you?
For me talking about my urges helps the moment pass - I realize how absurd my thought process is and its the spell the toxins have on my brain making me think the way I do.
For me talking about my urges helps the moment pass - I realize how absurd my thought process is and its the spell the toxins have on my brain making me think the way I do.
Just have a cigarette and some coffee already. I think this whole thing of quitting 2 addictions at once is just plain nuts. I remember an hour long discussion on this in rehab. The consensus was unanimous, even among the nonsmokers.
Ach, like you, I'm around 2 weeks. When the urge to drink threatens what I have accomplished, I find it helpful to drink a huge quantity of water, or even chilled herbal tea. Even if it doesn't make me feel "better" per se, the alcoholic in me knows that any alcohol I put in after will be dramatically... and for me at least, that removes some of the attraction.
Hope you're staring it down. With cigarettes, if that's what it takes.
I got those urges every night for quite awhile. Do you intend to give into them every night? I would tell myself "let's pretend we gave in last night and tonight is the night off that you bargained for if you drank last night." The more you say no the softer the voice gets.
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Hungry
Angry
Lonely
Tired
Normally an urge can be put down to one of those. Identify it, go "ah that's the problem" and once you know why, it's easy to deal with.
As for the cigarettes, yeah I always start my clean up by giving up everything. I do that because I have an addictive mind that doesn't do things by halves. And then I sort of come to my senses and realize that it's probably better not to overdo the whole clean-up thing and just concentrate on maybe one or two things - like drugs and alcohol. It's usually enough to be going on with
You're doing great by the way. Proud of you!
Hungry
Angry
Lonely
Tired
Normally an urge can be put down to one of those. Identify it, go "ah that's the problem" and once you know why, it's easy to deal with.
As for the cigarettes, yeah I always start my clean up by giving up everything. I do that because I have an addictive mind that doesn't do things by halves. And then I sort of come to my senses and realize that it's probably better not to overdo the whole clean-up thing and just concentrate on maybe one or two things - like drugs and alcohol. It's usually enough to be going on with
You're doing great by the way. Proud of you!
Just tired and lonely. Going to drive to the frozen yogurt place. Birthday cake flavor here I come. Sorry I just have to post on here to get some good sense in my head when some evil part of me is screaming for a drink and stupid "companionship" at a bar.
Yea I have been craving the stuff lately, I don't think it is as fattening as ice cream. I had pad thai for lunch and some farfalle for dinner. Trying to cut down on the fries and burgers, but like you guys said above, maybe focusing just on drinking for 6 months or so is the best way to go, then I can ditch cigs, etc. I really miss my cigarette and coffee while reading and grading papers.
We got to fight the URGE to SPLURGE on alcohol. I don't wanna go broke, and once I start I pretend I have millions of dollars. I am not going to be a pathetic drunk any longer, I am going to get my yogurt and read a little while. Going to counselor tomorrow too.
Keep it up.
Great job. You found a way to win today's battle. I can't speak for everyone, but the fact that you reached out, and made it through reinforces that I'll be able to do so also when the time comes. Awesome.
Btw, my town had zero frozen yogurt places a year and a half ago. Now we have four. It's like the 1980s all over again. My son (who wasn't around til 2006) loves that they're everywhere.
Btw, my town had zero frozen yogurt places a year and a half ago. Now we have four. It's like the 1980s all over again. My son (who wasn't around til 2006) loves that they're everywhere.
Great work Ach. Where you are today compared to a few weeks ago is truly remarkable. Keep fighting the good fight and lean on SR when you need it. The urges will become less frequent and less intense over time, but its always good to have a back up. Have a great night.
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