Mentium

I had an old friend due to visit later today and stay overnight. He isn't much of a drinker. He more or less invited himself three or four days ago and being polite and such I of course said it would be great to see him. I told him I was 'on the wagon' (no further details) and he said that was no problem as he hardly drinks at all these days.

This morning the cleaning, cooking, bed changing and effort of entertaining seemed too much at 11 days in, so I phoned him, made a lame excuse and cancelled. I feel a bit guilty and while his visit probably would not have been a threat to my progress I felt anxious about it. It also means I can go to a meeting tonight, which I need to.

Sensible I think, yes? Or just me being a wuss?

ReadyAtLast

You have done the right thing. You have to do what's best for you. Listen to yourbody and mind -if you have fears/worries they are justified and real. Do whatever you have to do to overcome them. A true friend will understand

Congrats on 11days

jaynie04

Sensible! It sounds to me like you are putting your sobriety first....congrats!

ZoeM

I've done more-or-less the same thing An old friend is in the area and suggested we go 'for a drink' (he doesn't know my situation). I told him I was 'away this weekend'.
Felt bad, but just not ready yet to risk it.

ersatzmatriarch

absolutely sensible!!! if you aren't feeling centered, it's wonderful to be able to acknowledge it and then take action. you are awesome!!