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Old 09-02-2013, 08:16 PM
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Just Worn Out

Started the day msg my sponsor and sponsee.

treated myself to some chicken wings

Got a bit tense on SR about a post concerning detoxing alone.

did some fantasy football and listened to the baseball game.

Had a cookout with neighbors.

Called my mother.

And then the calls started in...just a list...much more involved than I'm writing here...but too tired to write it out...

Sponsee's wife: Would you please come over and talk to him? No.

Police: would you come down to the ER? Yep...be there in 10.

Drunk neighbor: do you have .75 cents? Sure.

Priest: can you go to VA Milwaukee tomorrow? Call me in the morning.

Sponsee: I drank at the Labor Temple. Ok so?

Police: either take him home or he goes to jail. Go to jail.

Sponsor: will you chair the meeting tomorrow? Yes.

You all know what? This might wear me down but it keeps me sane.
I am so thankful I found Alanon.

I think anyone who sponsors an addict/alcoholic should be sentenced to Alanon!!!
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Old 09-03-2013, 01:47 AM
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Excellent decision tree in action, Wiscsober! Sorry about the sponsee. Hopefully, he'll learn.
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Old 09-03-2013, 03:52 AM
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Dear Wisc---I think your idea is an excellent one! I wonder if anyone else has thought of this? It is true, I think, about working one-on-one with others in helping or care giving (as in my own profession). It is imminently rewarding--but it is really draining, because all day long, you are putting the needs of another in the forefront. I have found, in my own life, that I had better have my own personal needs met in my personal life--or, it all gets to be too much.

In other words--I hear you!

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Old 09-03-2013, 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted by wiscsober View Post
Started the day msg my sponsor and sponsee.

treated myself to some chicken wings

Got a bit tense on SR about a post concerning detoxing alone.

did some fantasy football and listened to the baseball game.

Had a cookout with neighbors.

Called my mother.

And then the calls started in...just a list...much more involved than I'm writing here...but too tired to write it out...

Sponsee's wife: Would you please come over and talk to him? No.

Police: would you come down to the ER? Yep...be there in 10.

Drunk neighbor: do you have .75 cents? Sure.

Priest: can you go to VA Milwaukee tomorrow? Call me in the morning.

Sponsee: I drank at the Labor Temple. Ok so?

Police: either take him home or he goes to jail. Go to jail.

Sponsor: will you chair the meeting tomorrow? Yes.

You all know what? This might wear me down but it keeps me sane.
I am so thankful I found Alanon.

I think anyone who sponsors an addict/alcoholic should be sentenced to Alanon!!!

How are you doing?
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Old 09-03-2013, 08:44 PM
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Old 09-05-2013, 02:46 PM
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How are you doing?
doing well....had a great meeting about gratitude and indirect amends. Signed up to chair my last meeting at my homegroup before I move. Doing very well. Thankx.
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