looking to talk. any one around?
Many of us have had nights like that.
As long as you stand firm and don't drink you'll be ok, fighting the urge gets a little easier every time.
Think about where that drink takes you alf - think through past the drink, and think about the consequences.
You won't regret waking up sober tomorrow morning, trust me
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As long as you stand firm and don't drink you'll be ok, fighting the urge gets a little easier every time.
Think about where that drink takes you alf - think through past the drink, and think about the consequences.
You won't regret waking up sober tomorrow morning, trust me
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Joining SR was a good step Alf - lots of support here
you've said before you don't want to do it alone anymore - have you thought of other real life support as well - a recovery programme like AA or SMART or something else, or maybe seeing your Dr or a counsellor?
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you've said before you don't want to do it alone anymore - have you thought of other real life support as well - a recovery programme like AA or SMART or something else, or maybe seeing your Dr or a counsellor?
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If it was no prob to quit we wouldn't need SR alf
it does get easier...but the first few weeks are pretty tough for most of us.
compare the years you drank to time you've been sober - give it some time, alf
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it does get easier...but the first few weeks are pretty tough for most of us.
compare the years you drank to time you've been sober - give it some time, alf
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What helps me sometimes when I am very overwhelmed by thoughts and feelings (about anything, not just drink cravings) is to know that I am NOT my thoughts and I am NOT my feelings... That means I am the higher consciousness that gets to pick and choose how I will act and behave. So whenever I feel a panic or thought that one day I might want a drink really bad, I can take some comfort in knowing that just because I think I might drink doesn't mean I will. Hope this makes sense.
Some people just call those thoughts their AV, the thoughts of drinking. And some people call that higher consciousness their Higher Power.
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Some people just call those thoughts their AV, the thoughts of drinking. And some people call that higher consciousness their Higher Power.
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I don't ever fight or engage my beast. I acknowledge it is there but it has absolutely no power over me. It's pathetic and wants only one thing which it will never get, ever.
Can you just go to bed and call it a day?
Can you just go to bed and call it a day?
Being here is great. I quit drinking the night I joined here, learned about Rational Recovery/AVRT and am now permanently abstinent.
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There are many roads to recovery. Here is a link that discusses some:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...formation.html
Information about Rational Recovery/AVRT is in our Secular Connections forum:Secular Connections - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
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I think there are probably tons of reasons people have for drinking. Some would argue there's just one: to get a buzz or to get drunk.
Why not think of reasons to get sober?
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Why not think of reasons to get sober?
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Oh, I used to believe I drank for all different reasons. Childhood abuse, rape, death of loved ones, depression, anxiety and so on. Terrible things happen to people that never abuse drink or drug. Life is life.
For me, it boiled down to one thing and one thing only. I drank to get drunk.
For me, it boiled down to one thing and one thing only. I drank to get drunk.
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