As of now it's out of my hands ..
As of now it's out of my hands ..
Right ,
That's it , i've had enough and i hand it over to life , fate , god , passing space aliens or whatever ... There is no way i can control or influence the erratic behaviour of certain people in my life at the moment , how this pan's out i shall wait and see but i am going to concentrate on making now good , tomorow or next week can wait untill then .
I refuse to let it get to me or upset my serenity
Right i'm going to get on with making my dinner and carry on as per a normal weekend , i do not wait for phones to ring , i do not pick them up to check they still work or phone my own mobile to check it's still working .
sanity rules ,
feel free to add your own official "it's outta my hands as from now post"
Bestwishes, M
That's it , i've had enough and i hand it over to life , fate , god , passing space aliens or whatever ... There is no way i can control or influence the erratic behaviour of certain people in my life at the moment , how this pan's out i shall wait and see but i am going to concentrate on making now good , tomorow or next week can wait untill then .
I refuse to let it get to me or upset my serenity
Right i'm going to get on with making my dinner and carry on as per a normal weekend , i do not wait for phones to ring , i do not pick them up to check they still work or phone my own mobile to check it's still working .
sanity rules ,
feel free to add your own official "it's outta my hands as from now post"
Bestwishes, M
Thanks least & sasha ,
Lemony chicken and corainder /ciltrano .. it's my latest favorite meal ..
Accepting what i have control over and what i don't and knowing when to let it go emotionaly are things that have helped keep me sober , i think .
I wanted to see this one in print , might offer some insight to someone as well as act as an afirmation to myself
Bestwishes, M
Lemony chicken and corainder /ciltrano .. it's my latest favorite meal ..
Accepting what i have control over and what i don't and knowing when to let it go emotionaly are things that have helped keep me sober , i think .
I wanted to see this one in print , might offer some insight to someone as well as act as an afirmation to myself
Bestwishes, M
Hey M! I hope you are ok.... Not a post within character but I trust you getting this out is best!
I cannot control much in life but me and then only a seemingly small percentage... Lol
Great dinner idea.
I am on the road driving to the jersey shore to meet up with brother and family. Should be fun to see the ocean again. Been a while.
Be well my good friend!
Ken
I cannot control much in life but me and then only a seemingly small percentage... Lol
Great dinner idea.
I am on the road driving to the jersey shore to meet up with brother and family. Should be fun to see the ocean again. Been a while.
Be well my good friend!
Ken
Right ,
That's it , i've had enough and i hand it over to life , fate , god , passing space aliens or whatever ... There is no way i can control or influence the erratic behaviour of certain people in my life at the moment , how this pan's out i shall wait and see but i am going to concentrate on making now good , tomorow or next week can wait untill then .
I refuse to let it get to me or upset my serenity
Right i'm going to get on with making my dinner and carry on as per a normal weekend , i do not wait for phones to ring , i do not pick them up to check they still work or phone my own mobile to check it's still working .
sanity rules ,
feel free to add your own official "it's outta my hands as from now post"
Bestwishes, M
That's it , i've had enough and i hand it over to life , fate , god , passing space aliens or whatever ... There is no way i can control or influence the erratic behaviour of certain people in my life at the moment , how this pan's out i shall wait and see but i am going to concentrate on making now good , tomorow or next week can wait untill then .
I refuse to let it get to me or upset my serenity
Right i'm going to get on with making my dinner and carry on as per a normal weekend , i do not wait for phones to ring , i do not pick them up to check they still work or phone my own mobile to check it's still working .
sanity rules ,
feel free to add your own official "it's outta my hands as from now post"
Bestwishes, M
An hour after typing this a message arrives ,
I was able to respond from a place of calm, peace and hapiness .
Sobriety and the skills we learn dealing with life whilst maintaining sobriety are worthwile and for this alcoholic, i think, make me a better man .
Have a good sober saturday , M
I was able to respond from a place of calm, peace and hapiness .
Sobriety and the skills we learn dealing with life whilst maintaining sobriety are worthwile and for this alcoholic, i think, make me a better man .
Have a good sober saturday , M
Well, my weekend took an unfortunate turn and there's something out of my hands now. Mrs. Non fell up some steps at a local store and broke her right foot in multiple places. She has a cast on now, and needs to follow up with an Orthopedic Podiatrist on Monday. So far she is horrible on crutches and has already fallen trying to go to fast. She hasn't yet figured out how to get into the bathroom by herself. She won't be able to drive for weeks or months.
Basically, I have just donned a caregiver role I was not anticipating. I will have some help from 2 adult children who are here for the summer, but I expect to bear the bulk of the burden. Fortunately my employer has a liberal sick leave policy, and I will be able to take as much time as necessary to assist.
OK, she's calling me. I need to run to the pharmacy. Dear Lord, please - no one give her a bell!
Basically, I have just donned a caregiver role I was not anticipating. I will have some help from 2 adult children who are here for the summer, but I expect to bear the bulk of the burden. Fortunately my employer has a liberal sick leave policy, and I will be able to take as much time as necessary to assist.
OK, she's calling me. I need to run to the pharmacy. Dear Lord, please - no one give her a bell!
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Mecanix; I hope you are OK, I think you are handling whatever is aggravating exceptionaly well!
Nons; Mrs. Nons. is in a lot of pain for sure....I fell DOWN handicapped steps at my mother's last year almost the same time...tore my CFL tendon...no break but my "kankle" swelled to the size of my head daily by the time i got home...it took at least 3 months to heal....
regarding the bathroom.....maybe you can scamper to Home Depot and get a small bar to install on the wall to help her hold on while she gets up and down....less awful than the dreaded pottyhandles that go over the toilet with the built in elevated seat. showering will need some modifications too.
So Weasel is going to visit Little Miss Fandy (my daughter) who lives on one of the barrier Islands....she is always on her beach walking the dog.
Nons; Mrs. Nons. is in a lot of pain for sure....I fell DOWN handicapped steps at my mother's last year almost the same time...tore my CFL tendon...no break but my "kankle" swelled to the size of my head daily by the time i got home...it took at least 3 months to heal....
regarding the bathroom.....maybe you can scamper to Home Depot and get a small bar to install on the wall to help her hold on while she gets up and down....less awful than the dreaded pottyhandles that go over the toilet with the built in elevated seat. showering will need some modifications too.
So Weasel is going to visit Little Miss Fandy (my daughter) who lives on one of the barrier Islands....she is always on her beach walking the dog.
I'm glad that you posted the way you felt and handled the disappointment. It's a good reminder how we do have a choice in sobriety as far as how we will react. I'm still working on it! I hope you had a fabulous dinner!
Very true. She's on Vicodin now, so she's OK as long as she is not moving. Waiting in the ER waiting room for the triage to happen, the move to the room, waiting for the doctor to show up, etc. when she was un-medicated was tough.
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