How did you reward yourself for sobriety milestones?
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How did you reward yourself for sobriety milestones?
I'm coming up on 100 days sober tomorrow. Looking for ideas to treat myself on this milestone. What did you do?
I had a stupid idea last week to have 1 beer on my 100th day ...but after thinking about it for 5 days, I've realized it is a completely, utterly stupid, perhaps career ending idea. 1 beer has always led to a multi-week bender in the past. Why would this time be any different?
I had a stupid idea last week to have 1 beer on my 100th day ...but after thinking about it for 5 days, I've realized it is a completely, utterly stupid, perhaps career ending idea. 1 beer has always led to a multi-week bender in the past. Why would this time be any different?
I'd like to put a little money away every day until (hopefully) I hit the magic 365. Then I'll take all the money and blow it on something fun. I love gadgets and computer related things, so I'll start thinking about this until I come up with the perfect anniversary present to me...
Only 358 days to go
Only 358 days to go
I believe that the mindset that says that sobriety is something that needs to be compensated for, something that needs some external reward for its maintenance, is not a sustainable one. Not for me, anyway. If being sober were some hardship, I would be back inside that bottle of Smirnoff in a flash.
I've come to understand that each sober day is a reward in its own right. I have done my time, and now I am free.
I've come to understand that each sober day is a reward in its own right. I have done my time, and now I am free.
Everysinglenight - the surgery is call blepharoplasty. Google it. I am not sure what it costs - I think it may be around $5,000. I figure I'd drink that much in a year.
I can deal with the gigantic butt and thunder thighs with the right type of clothing, but, short of wearing a mask, it's hard to hide the face. I just look so tired and haggard.
It's on my wishlist anyway - something to keep me motivated.
I can deal with the gigantic butt and thunder thighs with the right type of clothing, but, short of wearing a mask, it's hard to hide the face. I just look so tired and haggard.
It's on my wishlist anyway - something to keep me motivated.
I believe that the mindset that says that sobriety is something that needs to be compensated for, something that needs some external reward for its maintenance, is not a sustainable one. Not for me, anyway. If being sober were some hardship, I would be back inside that bottle of Smirnoff in a flash.
I've come to understand that each sober day is a reward in its own right. I have done my time, and now I am free.
I've come to understand that each sober day is a reward in its own right. I have done my time, and now I am free.
I believe that the mindset that says that sobriety is something that needs to be compensated for, something that needs some external reward for its maintenance, is not a sustainable one. Not for me, anyway. If being sober were some hardship, I would be back inside that bottle of Smirnoff in a flash.
I've come to understand that each sober day is a reward in its own right. I have done my time, and now I am free.
I've come to understand that each sober day is a reward in its own right. I have done my time, and now I am free.
However, I'm the kind of person that needs a little extra incentive every once in a while. This sobriety thing has been quite the roller coaster for me.
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For my one year, I got a recovery ring and my nose pierced. My sober peeps took me to the piercing studio and then out to dinner. Fabulous!
After that, each year has been dinner with my sober friends (and there are gifts!!) It's almost like having two birthdays a year....
After that, each year has been dinner with my sober friends (and there are gifts!!) It's almost like having two birthdays a year....
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It is not a reward. It is really other people celebrating that I am no longer a drunk *******. I just happen to be the recipient of said good tidings. I don't usually do anything for myself, but just go along for the ride. Sobriety in and of itself is enough for me....oh, but if you insist, I'll let you buy me dinner and a movie!
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