My wife is in
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My wife is in
Hi everyone, please excuse me as I just ramble, but I just need to download as my wife settles into a 10mth rehab program. I dont now what to say or where to start,I dont know what to do with all the pain from the last few yrs,I dont know how to take my wifes angry phone calls since she has been in there,so manny times I have found myself in tears scared of what next,and seeing my wife this way just breaks me inside,is it normal what I feel,is there a light ahead.
Hi Glider, welcome.
Good job and thank you for getting your wife the help she needs. She might be angry on the phone but I hope in the future she understands the gift you've given her.
In the meantime, are you seeing a counselor or participating in any support groups? Now that she's physically safe, it would be a good idea to take some of your energy back from her and put it towards your own recovery.
(Also, check out the friends & family forums too):
Friends and Family of Alcoholics - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
Friends and Family of Substance Abusers - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
Good job and thank you for getting your wife the help she needs. She might be angry on the phone but I hope in the future she understands the gift you've given her.
In the meantime, are you seeing a counselor or participating in any support groups? Now that she's physically safe, it would be a good idea to take some of your energy back from her and put it towards your own recovery.
(Also, check out the friends & family forums too):
Friends and Family of Alcoholics - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
Friends and Family of Substance Abusers - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
Also, I think it's normal to feel what you're feeling. I helped someone I loved get into counseling for serious mental health and substance abuse issues. It was so chaotic and dramatic and draining ... I remember when he finally began and it was no longer my sole responsibility, I felt drained, empty, and sad as heck. The immediate task of protecting him was over and so for the first time I noticed just how messed up I'd become. It was a really, really raw and difficult time in my life.
I didn't deal with it, I just swept it under the rug and a few years later I found myself an alcoholic. I wish I had put in the time to work through the experience.
I didn't deal with it, I just swept it under the rug and a few years later I found myself an alcoholic. I wish I had put in the time to work through the experience.
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