He's still telling people hes my BF
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He's still telling people hes my BF
Well my interview at ROYS went really well and im getting called upon a second interview so im pretty confiident i got the job 
( thank you god ) ive been praying every night that good things come my way...
anyways cut 2 the chase:
i went out with a friend of mine last night, and when we were out my other friend that is a promoter for this lounge stopped me and was like "Hey ev, i saw your BF here last night!" and im like "well we've been broken up for about 3 weeks now..." and my friend whips out his phone and shows me a text from my XABF saying "hey man, its evelyns boyfriend, can u tell me any parties that are going on this week??".....like seriously wtf...you couldnt say EX boyfriend?..you broke up with me remember? dumba$$..ugh.......i dont get it.
thoughts on this? anyone?
( thank you god ) ive been praying every night that good things come my way...anyways cut 2 the chase:
i went out with a friend of mine last night, and when we were out my other friend that is a promoter for this lounge stopped me and was like "Hey ev, i saw your BF here last night!" and im like "well we've been broken up for about 3 weeks now..." and my friend whips out his phone and shows me a text from my XABF saying "hey man, its evelyns boyfriend, can u tell me any parties that are going on this week??".....like seriously wtf...you couldnt say EX boyfriend?..you broke up with me remember? dumba$$..ugh.......i dont get it.
thoughts on this? anyone?
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think about what he was ASKING this person.....where are the parties. of course he was going to use any "in" he could to connect with this person and saying he was your EX bf would have been a barrier to that. that's all it is.
good luck with the interviews! if it's meant to be, it WILL be!
good luck with the interviews! if it's meant to be, it WILL be!
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I wouldn't put too much into it. It was just the easiest way to identify himself without getting into a bunch of personal stuff or having to explain the sitch.
Hey -- congrats on the 2nd interview!! Good luck!!!!!
Hey -- congrats on the 2nd interview!! Good luck!!!!!
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congrats on the positives with the job! other thing I thought was...MANIPULATION tactic once again. Whatever works for them at that moment to get what they want. Usually no more to it than that, right? Never was with mine, anyway...just a "I want X right now so I can do Y" kind of thing. go get 'em with the job!
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I wouldn’t read too much into it or put any emotions or energy into it. He used something to get something else (info) be thankful he’s not using you anymore!!!
Besides YOU know the truth and you shared it with the mutual link person and now he knows the truth.
Keep the focus on squaring away the new job!!!!
Besides YOU know the truth and you shared it with the mutual link person and now he knows the truth.
Keep the focus on squaring away the new job!!!!
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Thanks guys! im getting ready for my second interview in about an hour from now! Im kinda nervous! Never worked in a fine dining restuarant but im also really excited. God has been listening to me <3
And yeah im sure it is just another manipulation tactic of his...oh well.....just thought i wouldnt hear about him last night and of course he pops up somehow.....grr
And yeah im sure it is just another manipulation tactic of his...oh well.....just thought i wouldnt hear about him last night and of course he pops up somehow.....grr
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Originally Posted by Evey 
Thanks guys! im getting ready for my second interview in about an hour from now! Im kinda nervous! Never worked in a fine dining restuarant but im also really excited. God has been listening to me <3
And yeah im sure it is just another manipulation tactic of his...oh well.....just thought i wouldnt hear about him last night and of course he pops up somehow.....grr
And yeah im sure it is just another manipulation tactic of his...oh well.....just thought i wouldnt hear about him last night and of course he pops up somehow.....grr
lol unsolicited advice darn it Im such a codie!!!! hahahaha!
should I delete? Nah... maybe its ESH. fine dining is AWESOME! GOOD LUCK!!!!
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ok so I GOT THE JOB! i start tomorrow. im a little nervous they gave me a HUGE booklet to take home....oh man i just hope i can wing this....so much to know!! always pour water from the rightnever show a guest the back of your hand...omg lol WTF. hope i can do this cause im some what of a klutz lol. oh well im gonna give it my best and if mybest isnt good enough then on to the next one!
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serve on the right remove from the left. the idea is to be as unobtrusive as possible.....just a plate that floats in all on it's own filled with nummy stuff, which magically whisks away when finished!!! Ideally conversation at the table would not be interrupted during service, UNLESS you are doing some tableside service (flambé, ceasar salad etc).
you'll do fine. maybe even practice a bit tonite at home! trust me, in a fine dining establishment they won't LET you mess up too much! they have a reputation to uphold, and will do everything they can to assure YOU do a marvelous job.
seemingly silly question...but how are your nails? i'd suggest make sure they look neat trimmed and only a subtle nail color. your hands are about to perform MAGIC! go you!
you'll do fine. maybe even practice a bit tonite at home! trust me, in a fine dining establishment they won't LET you mess up too much! they have a reputation to uphold, and will do everything they can to assure YOU do a marvelous job.
seemingly silly question...but how are your nails? i'd suggest make sure they look neat trimmed and only a subtle nail color. your hands are about to perform MAGIC! go you!
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Originally Posted by AnvilheadII
serve on the right remove from the left. the idea is to be as unobtrusive as possible.....just a plate that floats in all on it's own filled with nummy stuff, which magically whisks away when finished!!! Ideally conversation at the table would not be interrupted during service, UNLESS you are doing some tableside service (flambé, ceasar salad etc).
you'll do fine. maybe even practice a bit tonite at home! trust me, in a fine dining establishment they won't LET you mess up too much! they have a reputation to uphold, and will do everything they can to assure YOU do a marvelous job.
seemingly silly question...but how are your nails? i'd suggest make sure they look neat trimmed and only a subtle nail color. your hands are about to perform MAGIC! go you!
you'll do fine. maybe even practice a bit tonite at home! trust me, in a fine dining establishment they won't LET you mess up too much! they have a reputation to uphold, and will do everything they can to assure YOU do a marvelous job.
seemingly silly question...but how are your nails? i'd suggest make sure they look neat trimmed and only a subtle nail color. your hands are about to perform MAGIC! go you!
getting there though!! one step at a time!
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