Luna1966

I'm married to a addict. His drug is vicoden. We have been battling this for 8 plus years. He says he is not using but my gut and experience tells me different. Things just aren't adding up. I feel completely alone and paralyzed by this. It also is consuming my life and I feel like I am defined by his addiction . I have forgotten how to live my life for me, I worry all day and all night every night.

Gilmer

Hi, Luna. Go over to the Friends and Family threads--you'll find a lot of company and support there.
Friends and Family of Substance Abusers - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information

Anna

I'm sorry for your situation

You might find it helpful to attend AlAnon meetings as a support for you.

Also, we have forums for Friends & Families on this board

Dee74

Hi and welcome Luna

I'm sorry for your situation but I'm glad you found us - there's a ton of support here

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